The Gossip Bakery

Votes taken by Identifying as Single Mom

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    It would mean so many “beautiful things” for the kids “if” she’s able to travel again in 2024.

    WTF JUST SPILL IT.
  2. .
    “Still struggling so hard to make friends.”
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    According to social media , Disney World was hell today, ridiculously long lines plus rain.

    (Like it always is this time of year. And Thanksgiving.)

    And Jen wants her old cranky parents to subject themselves to this?
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    I think the word is onward.

    Not that the word itself actually matters. She didn’t do anything wild this year.
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    There was nowhere in Portland or all of Northern California with memory cards that could be purchased?

    No Gorilla pod for the professional vlogger? No tripod? A phone tripod that can be hiked with is like $25.

    Edited by Identifying as Single Mom - 12/27/2023, 10:32 PM
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    I am going with the theory that Don is in rehab or inpatient mental health care.

    Or that he’s a Scientologist now.
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    For someone so big on boundaries, she knew that saying all of this was going to cause a ruckus. If I was Don/Tensleigh, I don’t care what the actual issue is, I’d be pissed that there’s Google-able speculation that they’ve gotten a DUI, addiction issues, and/or financial trouble.
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    Even if the SK said something to her, legally speaking, nobody has a leg to stand on. She’s not abusive or neglectful in the legal sense of the words and those are the only things that the SK could have any effect on.

    What she does in her non-custodial time is not relevant. I hate to Jenfend but it doesn’t matter if she’s down the street or in another state. They can’t order her home, her custody cannot be affected by that.

    Even if it was, that wouldn’t equate to MORE parenting time. It would be less. But it would require multiple visits to court. Just threatening her with anything isn’t going to get stubborn Jen to cancel two Disney races and stop making YouTube videos.

    If Don isn’t available or is incapacitated in some way, she is who gets the kids, by default.

    This over the top I only want to be with my kids is reminiscent of when they first split and she was implying that he was not a good parent and the kids were not with him very much.

    There’s a reason she doesn’t want people digging. It’s because whatever it is is probably going to be more embarrassing to those kids than ANYTHING she has put on the internet.
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    Y’all know Jen is reading over here, in her recreated open-legged pose, cackling at the speculation.

    The Bakery investigators have NEVER failed. Ever. Calling the divorce months ahead of time, chest hair analysis, RM2, RM3.

    It’s just a matter of time.
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    QUOTE (Spork Meltdown @ 26/12/2023, 04:05) 
    Do we know for SURE that the kids did not see Don at all on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?
    They could have been with Don during the day on Christmas Eve. ??
    How do we know for sure they didn't go to Don's Christmas afternoon?

    Why would they go there just for the afternoon?

    That’s totally not their normal custody setup.

    She made sure to show them yesterday, this morning, and tonight.

    She knows what she’s doing. They didn’t see him at all.
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    If Don was sick, I think she’d martyr herself over that, how their relationship with their father is super important and she’ll turn her world upside down to make sure they don’t lose that.

    She wouldn’t say that she could write a tell all.
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    She had the kids yesterday and today in the morning and for dinner?

    There’s no way something scandalous hasn’t occurred.
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    I’m amused that so many people think that Don could get full custody in the state of Illinois just because Jen runs away every time she doesn’t have the kids.

    Judges don’t take kids away from parents because they travel during their non-custodial time. What they do on their non-custodial time is irrelevant unless it is illegal or unsafe for the kids. 50/50 custody is standard and it would take something extremely egregious for any judge to veer from that.

    Moving to 7/7 is completely normal and would not ground her from travel.
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    QUOTE (Demented Turtle @ 25/12/2023, 22:02) 
    Does she actually say they are home with her full time? I didn’t hear her say that. Just that she’d be home with them. I think she’s using manipulative wording to make it sound different than it is.

    Also Merry Christmas to my favorite bakers. (Those that. Celebrate)

    She says her parenting time has increased dramatically.
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    “Thrust upon me.”

    “Frantic and stressed.”

    “Lots of surprises.”

    Wednesday’s video was not what she originally planned, but had to pivot.

    Savoring the redwood trip “especially now.”

    “Everything’s a bit topsy turvy” and she’s trying to “hold it all” and “steer the ship through it.”

    She’s been thinking about how to say things “for weeks.”

    These changes affect her content “moving forward.”

    She’s going to put a post up on social media on 1/1.

    “For the foreseeable future…could be a month or two or significantly longer…at least for the next couple months, stepping back from YouTube because…not traveling.”

    (Note: It was NOT that long ago that she was pumped and nervous about RunDisney. There was no indication that it wasn’t going to happen.)

    “I am HOME, at least for this winter, and then we’ll see.”

    Right now her kids “need” her home. And they will be at home “together.”

    She still wants to be a travel vlogger and it still calls to her.

    It “forces my hand”, taking an “unintended and indeterminate hiatus from YouTube.”

    “I’m doing my best, I’m juggling a lot right now.”

    “Single parenting on the go.”

    “My parenting time has increased quite dramatically.”

    She’s “had to” cancel the rundisney trips.

    She said she’s healthy, kids are healthy, her parents are healthy. Circumstances require her to be home with them.

    “I could write a pretty nice tell all if I wanted to but that’s just really not who I am.”

    Blue is “tucked away safely for a time.”

    “I’m hoping to return to the road but I don’t have enough information or foresight into that right now.”

    “I don’t know if [Blue] will come home or not.”

    “Extremely stressed about things that are not in my control.”

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    There is NO WAY this isn’t a negative Don situation. It’s not health related. It’s not a new job.
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