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So, when we think something is off or weird about Jen, I like to consider if, perhaps, I know of or have seen anything like it.
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.The pregnancy thing is so off with her. Good Lord, she could not shut up about it the last time she was pregnant. Now, with her family interaction being in her videos so much, her videos really showcase the fact that she may have mental or emotional issues related to being pregnant - and that no one but her is really into it. It is just so bizarre.
i wonder if it had to with the very public miscarriage she went through. maybe she learned that not everything has to be public.
Sorry. I was referring to when she was pregnant with Freya. She constantly had to tell us she was pregnant. She worked it into nearly every comment she made, no matter what she was doing. I liked her at first, but the whole thing pregnancy thing with Freya is what made me start not watching her as much. Then she went completely off the rails when Bobby retired and they moved. Ugh. -
Let's Chat | I'm Fat. But it's fine. I'm fine. It's totally fine-Part 426 - With Wonder - Jennifer Ross.
Jen just looks so odd in that photo. -
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OMG - That photographer is awful. Scrolling down, there is a family that makes it look like "having 4 kids is a breeze." No. No, they don't. Pants down around a little girl's ankles and the mother looking like she just twisted the arm of her son.
The beach pics of her families are going to be the awkward family photos of the future.
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.I was watching this: www.youtube.com/watch?v=jk6q4oQkCgM
Cozy, warm colors around the house, softer tone and glowing face, family dinner with Christmas cookies and tree trimming, it seems like a completely different woman from the unwashed, unshaved, balding woman planning to sleep in truck stops and Walmart parking lot and exercising like crazy because else, she'd literary go crazy. It's scary actually how her life has fallen apart. The woman in this video has no idea how her life would be shattered in a few short years.
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.Does anyone go over? I am thinking they drop the kids off at the porch say goodbye and run to the car to not have to go in.
I really don't see how that would have worked, that Suzanne was going to be impressed that her son is paying for this selfish persons living arrangement on D dollars. What a relief she must have felt when her son said to her, I am getting a divorce, her prayers were probably answered.
Clearly I am way too invested in this and my boss isn't here soooooo.
I WONDER THIS TOO but for both of those idiots.
Like I so wonder what happens when they exchange the kids?? Do Don or Tens go to the door, try to make small talk, come inside for coffee. Does she have the kids waiting with thier backbacks and lovies and Donnie is in a dress and she is hiding? That is probably the more likely scenario. Tens probably sais once a day to her girlfriends Jen is so bizare.
Does Jen have any contact with Don, do they text, meaning like does she make up reasons to text him ... CC might not be feeling well (as she whizzes by on her scooter of course) then does she journal and say I felt like I needed to reach out to Don over CC and I was proud of myself for having the courage to text him.
What happens at those recitals? She does not go out of her way to look great. Not gonna lie if I was going to for sure see my ex husband anywhere I would look better than my own wedding day yet she does not.
I so want to know
Honestly, I bet she's just like my ex. He was fine at first. But then he got so crazy when things got to the nitty gritty. He turned into a lunatic about child exchanges at about 18 months in. Now, he will go out of his way to not see me. He has literally run from his yard into the garage while I got kids out of the car. So, upon their arrival, they see his retreating back as they yell, "daddy, daddy!!" instead of a greeting and a hug or something. If he is inside, he opens the garage door to have them come in. I had to insist that our older boy wave to me from the window so that there was an adult to adult exchange - kind of.
When he picks them up, he literally wants them outside waiting for him - without an adult. The 4 yo, will still run into the street. He needs his hand held. So yea, I make him come up to the porch to get them, while I hang back inside.
When he drops them off, he either hangs back down the sidewalk, or stands to the side of the door, if he does come up to the porch. When he first started this scenario, he did not tell them he was doing that. So, they ran into the house thinking he would follow them in like he did before he went cray cray. They panicked when they realized they hadn't said goodbye...which resulted in them running back down the sidewalk after him. We live on a hill, close to the street - not a good scenario safety wise, and, obviously, not good for their emotional health.
So, there is no way I believe that she handles exchanges in a way that benefits the children over her crazy ass. I also would bet that she is not the least bit flexible in any way. I highly doubt that she lets Tens be involved in any way. -
.How is it possible that Jenny spends all day every day focusing on herself and her tender feelings but never sees what a mess she is? Or does she???
If she does, she doesn't care. I have a friend who is very self aware that she is a mess. But it is still everyone else's fault. One of her symptoms, actually. Despite being diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder in a moment of self awareness and going to anger management classes, it is her kids that are in therapy, but not her. And, their problems are theirs or their father's fault. Again, not hers. She gaslights the hell out of their therapists too.
So even if Jen was to be self aware about her problems, she would not recognize that she alone is the problem and she alone can work on it to not be so toxic to CC and Donny, and the other people in/out of her life. -
.Why such a shocked look on the vlog ?
They were trying for another baby, it could hardly be a shock
Cuz they are a$$holes. LOL I don't watch her anymore. I liked when she did the hoarding cleanups and cleaned her own house before she started getting popular, before we had to see Bobby and before she got pregnant the last time. I couldn't take her ad nauseum mention of being pregnant every other minute. I just check on this thread every so often. -
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Try not to get your hopes up. Remember when everyone thought Charity would break the mold?
I do wish all those kids well. I even try to tell myself that it is okay for people to live a "simple" lifestyle. But then common sense reminds me that they are backwards and stunted, and that kids need to be raised to fly and make their own choices -- with the proper tools. I think Charity half-heartedly tried, but had no idea what is really required to live a fulfilling, productive life, nor was she given or taught the the tools to be anything other than a handmaid. I remember finding out all the ways my normal childhood and normal education didn't prepare me for life. Probably happens to all of us to a degree, but we at least have enough tools to figure it out if we want to. I can't imagine trying to do it on a piss poor workbook education, with all my education outside those workbooks being making dinner for the family, birdwatching and trainspotting. You simply cannot decide to go to nursing school or certified nursing school or whatever it is she tried with that kind of background. Kind of breaks my heart. -
.I personally prefer it when Influencers don't comment on humanitarian crises or war. Whatever they say it always comes across as box-ticking to avoid criticism, or trying to sound like they care or understand something that they don't care about or understand. They live in a protected first-world bubble where their biggest dilemma is what to buy from Target. They have absolutely no understanding of what it's like to live in a war-torn country, or live under the constant threat of terrorism or political violence. So for me it's better if they just stick to their subject (for Jen that's boring and pointless 'travel' content) and don't comment on it. I don't need them to comment for me to feel okay about what I'm seeing in the news. It's not okay and no amount of Instagram commentary will make it okay.
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.Holy shite. I follow quite a few YT channels. I “pop in” on a lot of others. Lifestyle content does not interest me, clothing hauls likewise. There are millions of “creators” that are not and have never been in it for the money. And there are some that have been demonetized but still put out quality content daily. No matter what anyone is interested in, there is a channel or many channels with that interest being shown. She is correct that being a YTer is not a way to bring in the big bucks for many on there. Successful people also do sponsorships and THANK the sponsors in every video. TicTok has far surpassed YT and IG, many people who make their living online use every platform available to them. Some show different things on each platform, some have different content on each.
It is more than just having a camera and knowing how to edit, it is putting out content that people are interested in watching. When all you put out there is your face talking about yourself, it turns people off. When you look like an unwashed homeless person, living in your vehicle, act like you are the going to help people at a campground is they need it all the while locking yourself in at 7pm, people lose interest. Your Patrons are your bosses, but they are too afraid of being removed if they say anything to you that is remotely like a request to do anything differently. You only want to talk AT everyone, you never want to talk WITH them.
I have no idea what she could do to change things up. She went from being a spoilt rich wife with no cares in the world, able to be rude to her husband and think she was cute, to being whatever she is now. She has divorce cooties, she has drama cooties, she has troll cooties, it is everyone else's fault she has to “work so hard” to make the few pennies she does. Fake it till you make it has really not worked for any of her personalities.
This is what i think all the time with regard to her crappy content and how bad she is technically. I watch a lot of lifestyle, booktubers, hobbiests, etc., and their content is so much more thoughtful and the video quality is quite good. She literally has no excuse not to be better other than she is just documenting her poor mental health without getting real help. -
The STFU System: Sophia's Transforming & Freeing Upkeep system. Finally STFUing about stuff. Because we don't want to hear it anymore. - My Great Challenge.
I unsubscribed from her YT awhile back. I noped out of her IG because of her constant Etsy crap posts. Mostly because she's become so obnoxious and defensive. I find it telling that we are all bailing at the same saturation point. Does she notice? Or care? -
.I never thought I’d do this, but I’m going to (kind of) Jen-fend for a second. I recently took my two kids to Disney and my husband was only there part of the time, so it was just the three of us at Epcot and HS. Since my son is 7, he had to ride with a stranger on rides that were 2 by 2, Guardians of the galaxy, slinky dog, etc.
So, I give Jen half a pass on not taking her kids on “bigger” rides.
HOWEVER, you can fit 3 across on thunder mtn, 3 on space mtn, a group of 3 is no problem on the rides in Star Wars land, ratatouille, soarin’ etc etc. There’s a LOT more she could do with the kids. Also, she can afford to hire a fourth person (like those plaid vest people, I’ve seen them pushing babies in strollers while the party is on a ride) or bring a niece to round out the group.
She had Donny sit by himself on a ferry (?) ride when he was 2 or 3. Jen and CC sat in the row in front of him. I think it was their first trip to Disney after the divorce. He looked sad and scared - I’m sure someone here has a pic. So this isn’t the reason why she doesn’t take them on bigger rides. She’s just an a**hole.
She could also go to places geared towards their tastes and abilities. Or let them actually enjoy the parks despite not going on larger rides. Don't forget her absurd hotel room time to park time ratio. -
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So. I decided to watch this video. Haven't watched her videos in awhile. I was going to be open and just watch her without any snark. OMG. She's so obnoxious.
(That is all. LOL)
PS - How does she sound so smug when she reads those book excerpts???
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