I put together a list of evidence of trouble in paradise for Don and his pwincess. There are certainly alternate explanations for every item but together it looks pretty bad. It appears to have been going on for about a year.

Regarding the tinder profile, color me FLOORED, y’all. I absolutely had them down as married forever with disappointment and scorn on Jen’s part and indifference on Don’s. I’m inclined to believe it - or we have an admirably talented troll. The photos were a photoshop masterpiece if fakes and the description was completely on-profile for Don. He’s a baseline horn dog as we’ve established (his public defense of Jen including her “services” and their bizarre Daddy relationship). Also, this is super typical behavior for someone who has only had only had sex with one person, married young, and finds himself rejected/ignored by his spouse.

Strong evidence
-Significantly less Don time on insta and YT over the past year
-Huge influx of sht quotes about boundaries, self empowerment, being appreciated/people not valuing your worth
-Don not on her list of what brings her joy while including Winnie and the kids.
-She’s finally sharing her troubles with “a friend” which she’s presenting as a huge new step for her (so it’s unlikely she’s using “friend” as a member of The Fam as she often does). As her go-tos would typically be her husband or The Fam, why would she suddenly incorporate a friend if it weren’t about Don?
-Firing the Ross family therapist after 8 years bc she suddenly felt she “couldn’t share freely”
-Saying she *can’t* share right now. That sounds like legal advice. Jen shares her cervical mucus - and when she *chooses* not to share, she will typically say it’s because she’s fiercely private/protective about some things.
-Jen taking on Don roles - the Saturday pancakes, bathtime
-Jen, who has almost never associated YT with making money even when arguing it’s her career, suddenly brings up YT as an income source
-In depth sharing when she is alone (Eugene, her PD in Utah), but radio silence around the Rosses who have never minded the spotlight
-Change in Thanksgiving venue. It’s one thing to do group vacations (Utah, Williamsburg) while estranged but another to host in your own home.

Less strong
-Don’s nightstand having nothing personal on it; other potential missing items
-Several months ago Jen mentioned Gravy and Jill each came over once a week...separately. At the time we speculated it was trouble with the Boyles’ marriage. Maybe it was to support Jen during a problematic time?
-Don suddenly buying into DVC which Jen has wanted for years but Don pointed out was not a profitable investment. An appeasement gift? Something to show they were in it for the long haul?
-Jen getting her own minivan. Anticipating more pickups at the soup kitchen as well as less opportunity to use Don’s minivan for other outings?

Yeah, she goes through phases.... however, I am taking this silence as another tick in the “this is real” column. She could easily shut it down with a quick story but she’s choosing not to.