The Gossip Bakery

Votes taken by BsBuster

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    QUOTE (passerby @ 13/3/2024, 13:31) 
    Like everyone else here and all sane people, I can only use my personal experience for trying to understand what's happening with poor Esther.

    To me, she may mouth words but she's unresponsive to any command or question and it seems everything is instinctive only. I think her brain is damaged beyond all hope. Added to this, she's apparently now suffering secondary medical issues which in themselves sound insurmountable.

    I will say this; when my Dad was admitted to hospital for the last time, he was in Recuss for hours until they managed to stabilise him enough to be moved to the ICU.

    At this point my Mum and both my sisters decided between themselves that all would be well and, as had happened before, Dad would be patched up and returned home to Mum.

    But the head of department told us that Dad was in a really bad way and things didn't look good.

    Unfortunately, again, Mum and my sisters were in such denial that they didn't understand what they'd been told and still believed Dad was being cared for and would return home. The consultant called me aside and was very blunt. He told me that Dad would die within the next 3 - 5 days and it wouldn't be pretty. He told me to make my family understand this.

    I managed to get this sad news into them so they finally accepted facts and the consultant came to us again as a family and was blunt, firm but empathetic. Dad was on the way out and that was that.

    I spoke to Dad, told them we all knew (he had already been told and was at peace with this) and assured him we'd just enjoy the time he had left and not plead or nag him to get better.

    And basically that's what happened. No more being delusional, no more unrealistic hopes, just a settling and accepting of facts which allowed Dad to relax and we all enjoyed the next two days.

    I think Esther's doctors may have tried to tell Andrea what's happening but have shied away from being blunt and firm. Maybe that's an American medical ethics thing? Here, we're usually told up front what's wrong, what will be tried, what might very well happen. It's so much less stressful for all concerned but mostly so for the patient. It's horrible to try to meet a relative's unrealistic hopes.

    All in all, though, we viewers are at the mercy of Andrea's manipulations, duplicity and drive to wring as much money from people as she can. This gofundme thing, for instance, must seem like a dream come true for her. If people send her money, I highly doubt one penny of it will go in Esther's direction. Not one penny.

    I have never had medical professionals not tell us the truth about medical conditions or someone dying. We even have palliative care drs to help them with passing. There are usually decisions to be made about how you want them cared for as they pass. For example my brother had a 2nd massive stroke but was still alive and breathing without aid of machines but was terminal-he was brain dead. We discussed things with his palliative care dr and decided to give him his insulin,fluids in an iv, and something for pain if there was distress, and he was not to be resuscitated. They follow your advance directive for death decisions if you have one and if you don't they consult with the family as I think they are trying to do with Scamdrea. I have been where she is but she needs to take the blame off the drs and facilities and stop attention seeking-she simply needs to do what is best for her mother at this point.
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    Scamdrea is so delusional I think the medical professionals are simply trying to get through to her. Esther needs the services of a long term care facility and would get the therapies she needs but I'm thinking the problem is Medicare won't pay. They usually won't if no therapy is being given. It could be Esther is not reponding to the therapies either but Scamdrea wont admit it. My mom almost got kicked out of her nursing home because she refused to do her physical therapy-she thought throwing a ball in a clothes basket was stupid and kept cussing the therapists out and refusing to do it lol. They made an exception for me to go to therapy with her and coax her to do it. My mom was a smart cookie she knew if she didn't do her therapy she would have to leave the facility and get to come home. Esther does not look cognizant and is not speaking. Scamdrea is in deep denial and she needs to evaluate whether or not Esther is in pain and the right thing to do for her and not keep blaming people. I truly think Esther is simply not responsive to the therapies being given poor lady
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    I don't think Esther is in "another hospital" like Scamdrea is claiming. She is probably in a nursing home or rehab facility hence all the therapies that have been started. Scamdrea seems out of it and delusional-Esther is not speaking. She is in complete denial about this and seems weirder than usual like she's on something.
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    Im sorry but it does not seem to me that Esther is speaking but it's more reflexive like Scamdrea says the nurses think. She does the same moving of her lips whether her eyes are open or closed. I think she is more responsive but she's not speaking like Scamdrea thinks she is. She's not rolling her eyes at her either. 🙄
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    QUOTE (WorkinMom @ 2/3/2024, 16:50) 
    Curiosity is getting the best of me. Do YouTubers pay taxes on the income they generate? Would it be like an income tax?

    Wonder if the foolys pay income and property taxes….

    FoolyPsychAnalysis

    I was also thinking back to when Raphael was a toddler and had those AWFUL ulcers and sores from being left in a soiled diaper for too long. I raised three children and aside from occasional diaper rash- none of them EVER had open sores and ulcers like that baby did. And for him to get UTI’s he must have been left in filthy diapers for long periods of time. Shameful. Poor little guy..

    They receive a 1099 to use on their income taxes.
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    Miracle of miracles Esther woke up and asked if she was in hospice supposedly. Clickbait title you never hear Esther speak. So she is hearing her cow of a daughter and the awful crap she was saying to her. I don't know if I believe the hospice arc this storyline was late in being shown on YouTube and this seems more like a carefully planned money grab. Too sequential and tear jerky and all at Esthers expense-screw her privacy Scamdrea needs money. Seriously playing more of your godawful loud vlogs for the poor woman? Esther is blinking her eyes rapidly but seems to have lost her speech. Godspeed to her recovery. I want to shove that thing Scamdrea keeps sticking on her face right where the sun doesn't shine. I'm not buying the hospice bs-Esther seems the same just being filmed when she's a little more awake. And what about Jacks supposed coma? Pity donations must have been too slow for Scamdrea and needed a boost so she thought that storyline up. She even states she will talk to her dad when she gets home to tell him where Esther has put some cash with her social security card. Scamdrea has planned and directed this whole scenario for $$$.I think Esther is aware and has been and they are going to try and wean her off the respirator not send her to a hospice facility.
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    QUOTE (WTFooly @ 25/2/2024, 23:53) 
    BsBuster

    I believe that Esther and Jack worked all their lives, and it is possible that they have supplemental insurance that will kick in when Medicare maximums are met. I am a supporter of universal healthcare, but the complicated US system is not as horrible as Andrea makes out. My husband, son, and I have lived in Canada with cradle to grave government healthcare, and now live in the US. We have received excellent healthcare both sides of the border. Andrea would be bitching about the cost and quality of healthcare no matter where or how it was administered. She is sick and evil, a deadly combination. My heart bleeds for Esther, Jack, Eddie, Rafael, and Abigail. Andrea is a destroyer of lives. I even have some sympathy for Hadar, who is weak, sick, selfish, and his chance at a moral life has been totally destroyed by Andrea.

    Unfortunately here in the US most supplemental insurance does not cover nursing homes. In most cases you would have to purchase very expensive insurance for that type of care. Most people can't afford the very expensive premiums on long term care insurance only 14% of people over 60 have long term care insurance. This is a big problem in the Us many families are facing. However I think Scamdrea is lying about Abigail. And my family has had good experiences with hospice care here in the US. So frustrating to watch her allow Rafael to shove the phone in Esthers face playing the awful viral pudding video so loudly. Why that video? Let the woman have some peace

    Edited by BsBuster - 2/26/2024, 09:51 PM
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    I forgot to post the worst thing about being okayed for Medicaid/public aid. If you have a full coverage whole life insurance policy you must cash it in for the cash value and surrender the money to the state for your care. If it is term life insurance you are OK that is exempt.
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    Sadly after 20 days in a skilled facility Medicare stops paying 100%. There will be $200 you have to pay for their daily care and Medicare covers the rest. Then after 100 days the patient pays 100%. It is shameful how our government treats the largest population of elderly ever in the US. I went through this with my mother before she passed. If you have another hospital stay the whole cycle starts over with the 20 days full coverage etc. The patient has no choice unless they can self pay to apply for Medicaid/public aid. And let me tell most public aid nursing homes are horrors. Funny how our government can use our tax dollars to fund immigration and wars but do nothing for our own elderly. I'm sure that's what is happening with Esther right now and the nursing home is pressing to have her moved to a hospice facility.
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    QUOTE (Coral @ 19/2/2024, 21:48) 
    Andrea and Hadar are only interested in one thing:

    Making Money.

    There are many online sites which estimate YouTube earnings.

    One has listed their daily income as $200.

    However, one can perhaps assume that Andrea is receiving a disability pension, and the children are as well. How many other government benefits do they receive?

    A&H have demonstrated their expertise in only one area: Manipulation.

    Their “show” continues in that fashion.

    She doesn't get disability its based on your work earnings in the US. Shes barely worked in her lifetime. I doubt she even qualifies for SSI as you have to be diagnosed and prove it to the government.
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    More lies of course in the latest vlog. It's in her vlog description. She states she got an ultrasound a week while pregnant with Abigail because they could not find her cerebellum-lie she filmed vlogs where she had 2 over the cerebellum nonsense. She was so morbidly obese of course they had trouble reading the ultrasound so she had to have a second one not one every week. Then she states Abigail is having cluster headaches and migraines every week and is passing out-lie. Of course she always has to lay the bs on so thick it's unbelievable. 🙄🤡💩💩💩
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    Esther is not "allergic" to heparin but must have HIT or heparin induced thrombocytopenia a complication from heparin. I did some research and this condition can be a malpractice lawsuit for a sheisty lawyer. So greedy guts Scamdrea is seeing $$$ I'm sure.
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    QUOTE (SnickerdoodleDoo @ 6/2/2024, 15:59) 
    QUOTE (BsBuster @ 2/6/2024, 06:10 AM) 
    Latest video is disgusting. Poor Esther-there is no way I would want a video of myself fighting to recover from an aneurysm on the Internet. That poor woman...

    Just wondering...is there any way to report the videos to Facebook? Or at least get them demonetized? I can't bring myself to watch these videos.

    Does anybody know what hospital Esther was in? Maybe we could report it to the hospital admins. I'm sure they would not want all of this going out on YouTube. Maybe a lawsuit would take place.

    Andrea, we know you read here. You are a huge piece of 💩 and you should be ashamed of yourself.

    Hit the report button on YouTube and pick a reason for reporting it
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    Latest video is disgusting. Poor Esther-there is no way I would want a video of myself fighting to recover from an aneurysm on the Internet. That poor woman...
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    I call total BS on this one. No Dr sent her studies on platelets to smear or disagree with another Dr. That smacks of blatant dishonest ethics and is certainly against the hopitals policies. She just went on Dr. Google as usual. I stiil think shes getting an attorney to sue thinking its easy money. Why don't they chit chat and have their family reunion in the waiting room and let Esther rest instead of talking right over her bed?
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