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She's gone off her fucking rocker... again! I forgot I was even subscribed to her because I just pass over her videos when they pop up, but then there was a video by WITH WONDER. Ho-LEE SHEET. -
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In the thumbnail of her latest video, she could have almost passed for Colby 
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She's filming with a potato and I couldn't even tell her hair was purple!
I saw her lofty goals post on the IG the other day and thought to myself "oh, here we go again with this". One video a week yet again. At least she has the self awareness in the latest video to realize she ALWAYS. DOES. THIS. -
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"Hi I'm Jen and I like real dick" Maybe my favorite video of hers to date. While it was the most hilarious thing I have seen in a while, kudos to her for addressing something so forwardly. Can't hate on her for enjoying the D. 
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I read it. I don't know about you ladies, but do you remember every single detail of your pregnancies and birth stories 3 years later? I feel like a lot of that was embellished.
And yes she must have one hell of a low tolerance for pain if every single needle prick is excruciating like she said. She would be better off definitely not having more babies. Cervical checks can be painful, but "the worst pain I've ever experienced in my life" seems a little much.
All I can say is, people don't like to think it, but I suspect if you are a shitty patient, you don't get the absolute best treatment. I feel like that may have been part of her problem. She's so adversarial and it sounds from her story that they were over dealing with "the patient from hell". They didn't sound very receptive to her pain and complaints which leads me to think she complained a whole lot and they didn't really take her seriously after a while. -
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I can't watch it because of the kid noises. If I wanted to hear kids screaming, I would invite my nieces and nephews over and feed them lots of sugar.
If she just films while he's awake and screaming, WHY can't she just film more videos on the regular? That makes no sense that it takes her 500 years to make a video if she's filming with him screaming the entire video. Honestly, it makes her look like a really shitty mom in the times she films because he clearly wants her attention and he's not used to her camera stuff so he won't just ignore it and leave her be. She should put the damn camera away and spend time with him instead of confusing him. When he naps is the perfect time to film. That's what a lot of mom influencers do. And they somehow manage to film on the regular too. Imagine that, Jamie! -
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It's never held her accountable before so why even bother trying to now. At this point it's just a joke. -
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Count how many times she says genuine and authentic in this one. It's a doozy.
I feel like if she was worried about the genuine BS, she was more self aware than she is currently so I don't understand the entire thing. Before she thought she was a robot, but now she can love and feel and all the things?
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WTAF was that Q & A.
Don is her best friend now?! So convenient to change the narrative from hinting at and not correcting people with all the abusive talk.
Also, when she was answering what she would tell her 23 year old self she says something like "I would tell myself that you are capable of connecting with others in a meaningful genuine way". So what she's saying is she was worried she was incapable of being geniune and having friendships?? I don't get it. How fucking weird are you if you are 23 and don't think you can have meaningful relationships?! Like who talks like that?
"and that she is loved" really?!!? You thought your ENTIRE LIFE that you weren't loved? Dirty dirty liar.
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I agree. That would be my guess too. People generally don't move back in with their parents for funsies. I've been taking a break from all these train wrecks, but this might just suck me right back into it. I'm shocked they moved in with them! -
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It boggles my mind. If that is the life they want, I dont even know what to say. Why not aspire to do more with your life? travel more? Splurge on that handbag if youre so well off. The fact that she is content with just staying home, shaving her head, ignoring her baby and cater to Colby is sad to me. You do you boo boo, but dont sit on a throne of cheese and act like youre better than everyone else.
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I completely agree. I just cannot fathom how she looks at their lives and thinks "hot damn, we've made it in this world". It's pitiful how little she seems to aspire for in life and yes, the smug better than everyone attitude. Well, it makes me think the high and mighty stuff is an act she puts on because she's overcompensating for what is lacking. -
.Got any advice on how to do this without alienating everyone else within the circle?
In other words, how can I tell my mother (politely, of course) to fuck right off?
Serious question.
The right way to say this would depend a lot on your existing relationship. But if you tell someone, "I love you but I am afraid for my child's health and although I am glad you want to be near her, you need to help me protect her by staying away for now," and that person still insists on crossing that line, I would say to them "there is not enough room in my child's world for someone who would endanger her with such selfish love," and close that door. And if anyone criticizes you for protecting your child, they need to check themselves. Your mother's protective instincts are right on point. Tell them they are perfectly free to gamble with their own lives but not yours and not your kid's lives. I pray for strength for you and wisdom for your Mom and safety for all of you guys.
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Hypothetically, I wouldn't be allowing ANYONE time with my children who doesn't respect my boundaries. They are guilt tripping and manipulating her into not doing what she feels is best for her children and that makes them pretty damn shitty.
Politely fuck off to me would be along the lines of "I've rethought about our previous conversations and since you are still pushing for more more more, we're going to stick with my original plan of FaceTime only. My babies health is the most important thing right now and I am sorry but I'm not comfortable being pushed into risking their health." She's the mom, she makes the rules. Mom's rules trump grandma's wishes.
SHe could also add something in there about "since you can't respect my wishes, we are going to be taking a break from you completely because I'm tired of having to argue with you about this. I'm not changing my mind so you need to stop." -
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I have a newborn and a toddler. Our baby was born during this pandemic so nobody has met her in person yet. Only through FaceTime.
My husband’s side of the family are all taking this virus seriously and are waiting to meet her until things seem safer.
My side of the family I guess don’t think it’s serious and aren’t following social distancing guidelines. They are still going over to everyone’s houses, having get-togethers, and so on.. These people are all essential workers as well so they are potentially exposed everyday!
I’ve been getting not so subtly guilt tripped for the last few weeks by my mom because she’s having a hard time not seeing my kids. The guilt tripping is getting worse.
I’ve agreed to see her on Mother’s Day for a social distant visit outside, no holding the kids though and keeping distance between everyone.
Now she seems to not be satisfied with that because she wants to hold my baby!
It sucks being the only one trying to be safe. Am I really being ridiculous for trying to protect my kids?!
So sorry that your mother is being an ass here. I'd tell her politely to fuck right off. She sounds exhausting. What you need right now is love and support and rest. You just gave birth during a horrible time where you can't have much help or support from friends, family, and neighbors. Huge virtual hugs to you.
I don't believe for a second that the "distance" visitation is going to go well. They (maybe just she) sound like complete boundary stompers so I'd stick to FaceTime. Stay strong. Have you heard about some reported new complications in children that could be related to covid? There's no way I would risk it. -
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Wow, only morons who live with piles of debt use credit cards, AMIRITE Jamie?!!? How the mighty have fallen and joined the real world. I bet they woke up and realized they're never going to be able to pay cash for a house so they actually DO need credit after all those years of preaching about how credit cards are the devil and they would be able to get a house no problem without it.
Good for you, Jamie. Congratulations. No need to make a whole video about getting a credit card. Same with no reason to make a whole video about starting to eat gluten again (news flash, everyone already knew you did).
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