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Votes taken by Itworksformyfamily

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    I highly doubt they are going to get a divorce. Although I would very much like to watch the shit storm that would be. I think they have very typical marital problems. They went from being a couple for over a decade with Jen being very child like herself and don taking care of her Financially while Jen fondled over him like a toddler. Then they wake up one day and they have 2 children who she obsesses over and now don has his little princess to care for and Jen is pushed aside. On top of that meat eating sweet loving Jen ups and turns vegan when a large part of their life previously revolves around hosting family and the food that went along with that. Hell over the top Jen didn’t even really decorate for Christmas or holidays because she was to worried about the kids getting into things.

    I will say I believe she really does suffer from clinical anxiety which by the way surprise surprise you can have whether your privileged or not. It’s a very real, intense medical condition.
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    QUOTE (Vegan Crumb Manager @ 22/10/2019, 23:13) 
    QUOTE (Itworksformyfamily @ 10/22/2019, 12:37 PM) 
    That is so not true. I’m going to try to be as nice as possible but you just hit a BIG nerve. We spent 2 years in misery with no access to services because a caveman doctor wouldn’t refer for testing because our then 2 year old made eye contact and was too affectionate towards his dad and I. NOT ALL AUTISTIC PEOPLE HAVE THE SAME QUARKS. Diagnosis if criteria is delay in social skills, delay in fine motor skills, delay in speech, and one of about 100 different “symptoms or quarks”. You do not need every stereotypical trade mark to have autism. Our son was finally diagnosed when he was 4 we had changed doctors due to a military move and at our very first appointment his new doctor referred him to a development pediatrician.

    Sorry you went through all that. :animated-smileys-hug-011: Forgive me for hitting a nerve. I don't know much about it. Do you think little cheese is showing signs?

    He just doesn't seem to me to have any delays besides speech. He acts very social & smily, point to things, doesn't seem to have motor delays. He doesn't seem caught up in his own world at all. I just looked up signs for a 2 tr old and besides speech, I'm not seeing any relevant issues or delays with him.

    I personally don’t think so. Although every child is different he doesn’t show any of the basic gross or fine motor delays that one would need to see in order to form a diagnosis. Other things like social Impairments and behavioral outbursts would be hard to see as she would likely not film meltdowns and he would have to have access to social situation in order to see a delay. Our son interacted the most neurotypical with me but would struggle and often retreat from peers.

    I remember her saying that he was a difficult baby. That is something we also went through but I also had a very difficult pregnancy and labor and have not seen any substantial studies linking pregnancy/birth/infancy having a direct impact on a later autism diagnosis.
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    [QUOTE=Vegan Crumb Manager,22/10/2019, 04:25 ?t=61261717&st=I think he's too smiley and makes too much eye contact to be autistic, but I could be way off base there. I thought eye contact was a big marker.
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    That is so not true. I’m going to try to be as nice as possible but you just hit a BIG nerve. We spent 2 years in misery with no access to services because a caveman doctor wouldn’t refer for testing because our then 2 year old made eye contact and was too affectionate towards his dad and I. NOT ALL AUTISTIC PEOPLE HAVE THE SAME QUARKS. Diagnosis if criteria is delay in social skills, delay in fine motor skills, delay in speech, and one of about 100 different “symptoms or quarks”. You do not need every stereotypical trade mark to have autism. Our son was finally diagnosed when he was 4 we had changed doctors due to a military move and at our very first appointment his new doctor referred him to a development pediatrician.
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    She’s obviously never hear of rec league soccer. 3 hours a day practice 3 days a week and full day tournament style games every weekend.
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    There is no excuse not to fix the windshield unless they don’t have insurance. We have had several insurance companies over the years and have always been able to file a quick claim to have our windshield filed and/or replaced. They often send them directly to you.
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    When her kids are older and moved out I doubt they’ll visit more than major holidays if that. She doesn’t seem like she has enough connection with any of them for them to go out of their way to see her. She’ll be lucky is lily doesn’t resent her for putting all the effort into they boys baseball. The oldest will resent her for pushing to hard and the youngest for always liking the oldest more.
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    My son is 8 and does his own laundry start to finish every Sunday during the school year. He uses laundry pods just for his stuff so he can be completely independent. We also use a bin system for undergarments, pjs, and active bottoms so he doesn’t have to fold everything. At the very least lily and Mathew should be doing their own laundry.
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    Our last move I had unpacked our house in 48 hours. Not a single box left in sight. And that was after driving 3 days with a 7 year old 3 cats and a dog. Everything was I’d say 90% organized. Of course I tweaked things here and there as anyone does whether they have lived in a house 6 months or 6 years.
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    I honestly thought the whole finale was quite awful. Over scripted, shoved together, crap out of thin air.
    SPOILER (click to view)
    the worst part for me was the little girl who didn’t remember any of her life before. Seriously her dad just HAPPENED to be there at the airport 🙄. Luke broke my heart though I will say that. And seriously commander Lawrence 🔥🔥🔥
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