The thing that’s making me so incredibly angry as I get it OK if you’re not gonna get back together fine but she creates all of the hype and issues herself she either needs to come out and say look this is what happened this is why we broke up we’re not getting back together we’re both fine we’re both working through it or just stop posting I’ve had enough of her!!!!! She is manipulative she is a liar and she’s ridiculous!!!!
Listen I think Jenn is Crazy!!! And completely makes everything harder than it needs to be.
But at some point are we just bitching at her to bitch… She dyed eggs with the kids .. no maybe they’re not the prettiest but she did something… She put baskets together and she had eggs over the house and clearly Jenn and Don were together this morning for the kids!!
So maybe that’s enough… The kids seemed happy and they don’t know any different it’s what she’s always done!!!
Sometimes I think that no matter what she does we will all find away to say it’s not enough because she just simply irritates us all!!! If she had done nothing at all for Easter everyone would be saying she was awful for not even putting in any effort!!
I’m just gonna go with at least she did something at least the kids look happy and at least they found a way to be together for Easter morning and had both her mom and dad together!
I’m one of those awful moms ... I’ve got three kids and we have never one time dyed eggs !! I always thought it was a huge mess a waste of money and food ... so I guess I give her props for making any effort at all !!!! Lol
How can she not be looking in the mirror and feeling like she needs get herself together !!!!!! I mean I get him moving on and doing better ... but how does she care so little about herself yet all’s she talks about is self care ... what kind of self case is she doing !!!!
I just want this in the new thread too it's just so...so...shocking imagine if you were in a coma or something for the past few years then you woke up to Jen and Don looking like that. what would you think happened?
QUOTE (Jens Divorce Journey of Choice @ 9/4/2020, 01:27)
Wow. I’m just six minutes in. This isn’t about Don having the kids for one night. She’s been apart from them before. I think the cold, hard reality of divorce has finally set in. She may have gotten more of her much wanted me me me time, but that time has come with a hefty price. Despite still having plenty of money, her cushy life will never be the same. Her marriage is over, and eventually Don will have a new wife. If she can’t handle her former sweet boy having the kids for one night, how will she handle the August visit to Utah, or Christmas? The Rosses aren’t going to ease up on spending time with their grandkids to save Jen’s feelings, Regardless of who first brought up divorce, I firmly believe that her constant selfish naval gazing was a huge contributor.
Oh yeah… This right here for sure it has set in!!!
Here’s the reality of the situation all of us who have been married or married totally get the moment when things are hard and we just want to have a long weekend with nobody bugging us!!! Marriage has its ups and downs it’s hard work sometimes!!!
These two never experienced any hard times until the kids came and then it was Bam a lot of hard times and neither of them could work through them!!
I think Jenn very much had an idea of what “out of“ would look like!!
But here’s the truth we all put the work into marriage and into relationships for moments like this I think God I am quarantined with my husband and my kids and that we all love each other and want to be together!! I couldn’t get through this with out my husbands support!!
That’s what it’s about… Working through the hard times and we have had our fair share of them and putting in the time to create solid relationships so that during times like right now you have somebody to go through it with.
The reality of her choices are certainly setting in and she has nobody to blame but herself and she’s all alone!!!
No matter what she deserves no matter how much she’s done it to herself I will totally feel for that part of all of this she is utterly alone!!! Nobody wants to be with her how awful is that?? Yes her own doing yes her own situation but at the end of the day still that is a sad life!!
I just watched her video for today… She is really a freaking mess!!
I was thinking about back over the summer when she was reading and she was sharing her stacks of books and she had Rachel Hollis‘s girl wash your face book and when she read that she said it didn’t resonate with her
I was thinking about that today because I was thinking about how much of a victim she constantly is girl wash your face is about getting up making a better life for yourself taking responsibility for things and making the best out of the life that you have... jenn will never do that!!!
Instead she wants to follow people like Glennon Who are about feeling all your feelings and blaming other people for everything!!! It’s always the entire world‘s fault that they didn’t let you feel your feelings and be gentle with you!!!!
I understand having small children having several together all the life changes that they went through and losing yourself or letting yourself go because things are a struggle but when is she going to wake up and realize that she has thrown her whole life down the toilet!!!
Even directly after Charlotte was born she was getting up getting dressed putting a little bit of make up on keeping her self together!!!
What in the hell happened between the time she got pregnant with Donny and the summer of 2019 ?????
She has every ability to get up clean herself up and make a good life for her and her kids she doesn’t have to worry about an eighth of the things that people out here in the real world have to and yet she still can’t even manage to get it together!!!!!
She is just a hot mess and it keeps getting worse and worse as the days go on!
Jen not buying into Rachel Hollis’s brand of bullshit is the single most redeeming thing about her.
I’m just saying her choosing to follow after somebody who is in full victim mode and blames everybody else and her choosing not to relate to somebody telling her to get off her ass wash her face and make her life better is the entire problem
I’m not saying follow Rachel Hollis she is amazing ... I’m saying Jenn only follows after people Who give her permission to sit on her ass and not change her life!!
I get struggling, I get stressful situations I get a marriage is really hard work I get having kids is really hard work!!!! I don’t think there’s any fault in having a hard time and having to work through things!!
My problem with Jen will always be she is completely ridiculous and not willing to put any hard work into anything!!! She doesn’t want to hear that she is and Complete control of her life and can make it better ... and even more so in her situation as it has been stated she has no worries has plenty of money has plenty of help has every opportunity in front of her and she continues to just sit on her couch with her stupid ass coffee and her stupid ass love sweatshirt and cry about her life!!!!!
I just watched her video for today… She is really a freaking mess!!
I was thinking about back over the summer when she was reading and she was sharing her stacks of books and she had Rachel Hollis‘s girl wash your face book and when she read that she said it didn’t resonate with her
I was thinking about that today because I was thinking about how much of a victim she constantly is girl wash your face is about getting up making a better life for yourself taking responsibility for things and making the best out of the life that you have... jenn will never do that!!!
Instead she wants to follow people like Glennon Who are about feeling all your feelings and blaming other people for everything!!! It’s always the entire world‘s fault that they didn’t let you feel your feelings and be gentle with you!!!!
I understand having small children having several together all the life changes that they went through and losing yourself or letting yourself go because things are a struggle but when is she going to wake up and realize that she has thrown her whole life down the toilet!!!
Even directly after Charlotte was born she was getting up getting dressed putting a little bit of make up on keeping her self together!!!
What in the hell happened between the time she got pregnant with Donny and the summer of 2019 ?????
She has every ability to get up clean herself up and make a good life for her and her kids she doesn’t have to worry about an eighth of the things that people out here in the real world have to and yet she still can’t even manage to get it together!!!!!
She is just a hot mess and it keeps getting worse and worse as the days go on!
Ok even this ... look at her just less than a year ago ... someone said about the other photo I posted it was hard to compare because in the past she was had full make up ..
Ok here no make up but she looks and sounds like a completely different person ... and they had to be having problems at this point !!! It would only be 3 or 4 months before she was crying at the Ali workshop!!!
She just did an Instagram live and someone asked "Does Winnie miss Don?" She said, "No. They were never that close. If anything, they would compete for beta status." 😂😂 That is savage.
Here she goes rewriting history again… They were never that close all the Vlogs of Don and Winnie together and her saying how much he missed him when he was gone!!!
I think that she for sure had severe postpartum after Donnie… My postpartum after our last child lasted for 2 1/2 years I did not realize it was postpartum depression but looking back I can see that it totally was
We had three children under the age of five and a two-year-old that had just been diagnosed with autism and I think the postpartum was so severe because of life circumstances and I was just overwhelmed and not able to cope well
However in the middle of all of that I started my own business my marriage survived and we came out stronger on the other side
I don’t know that the postpartum has lasted for years for her but I can see her having postpartum for several years and with everything that they were dealing with it being really difficult she just has not handled any of it well
OK perfect… I found the address for him and saw the pictures of the place I was thinking everybody was seeing actual photos of his place
What I don’t understand is her “friendship” with Laken It cannot possibly be a real friendship.... they have nothing in common other than they each write stupid stuff liken brush your teeth in a planner!!!
Otherwise they live exactly opposite lives she’s getting divorced Lakens getting married, Laken has no kids lives in New York has a job has somewhat of an education she’s using
I’m not saying people can’t be friends that are in opposite places in life… That totally happens however usually those people have been friends for long periods of time.
It’s very difficult to create a friendship that is long distance/texting pretty much only when you’re in such different places in life you just simply can’t relate to each other!!!
Laken totally latched onto her so that she could gain followers and go further on YouTube!!! (IMHO)
Jenn seems to be really delusional about every relationship in her life!!!
And I just think there has to be something more to what happened with Don… There’s no way she’s been thinking about getting out of that relationship for 17 years like she implied. I just watched the Vlog from LA when she’s in Santa Monica and spent a day and a half there without Don and when she gets home she goes on and on about how much she missed him and she was only away from him for 53 hours but she’s so glad to be back home with him!!!!
I will chime in about the Epson salt I actually don’t think that’s an obscene amount of Epson salt to go through I have never drink Epson salt but I use it in my bath and I used 2 cups and so I go through 2 to 3 bags about the size of what Jenn hauled a week.
Epson salt is used for a variety of different things I actually had never heard of it being used as a laxative before
It is good to soak and it helps her muscles and it also helps her white cell count which I know is crazy but there’s just a crazy amount of benefits and using it
Now as it is colder right now during these months I am taking a bath every single night and that also helps my anxiety I use 2 cups of Epson salt a half a cup of baking soda and then 10 drops of either lavender essential oil or a muscle relief or stress relief essential oil
Totally not defending her situation like I said I had never heard of using it as a laxative.... The bags I get does say that one of the benefits is if you’re constipated soaking in it can help that situation
I am just saying that as somebody who uses it on a daily basis I go through those size bags 2 to 3 a week sometimes.
I Just order mine online because it’s actually cheaper to order it at Walmart.com so I order it every few weeks my last order I put in was two weeks ago and I still haven’t got it but I’m not gonna run out the store to get Epson salt it’s really not an essential part of life LOL
it's just so...so...shocking 
imagine if you were in a coma or something for the past few years then you woke up to Jen and Don looking like that. what would you think happened? 
