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| I know I am repeating what I’ve said before, but it just grinds my gears.
I hate when she goes to the theater and concerts and just says they were wonderful or “magic”. But then fails to provide any true insight to what made it magical, or how it compared to other things that she’s been to. It’s all for show and I hate that!
By the way the two words that she is ruined for me are “magic” and “journey”. |
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| | Wow the real photos of Jen help explain why she feels called to buy a whole new wardrobe of Peloton crap. Maybe she thinks if she wears active wear people will think she is fit and trim? But the real photos have proven, that’s a lie. |
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| I am not diagnosing, but do any bakers have experience with shopping addiction?
It seems weird to me that she continues to purchase things she already owns. After all, how many travel bottles does one or two people need??? For someone who's supposed to be "organized" she sure doesn't seem to know what she has. Not only that, she buys things only to return them a few days later.
Are these symptoms or a result of a shopping addiction? I'm assuming a shopping addiction is kin to gambling, and when it starts to rule your time and deplete your bank accounts that's when you really have a problem.
It seems to me, because she's wealthy, has a large home and puts all of the things in bins, her "addiction" is more socially acceptable.
Does anyone have any insights to offer about this?
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| Thank you Ican'twiththelikesofher. You are giving me time back in my life!!!
Thanks for such a detailed summary.
This is what people are paying money for?????
I can't help be think of that gif of Donny the fourth saying, "That's too many!"
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| QUOTE (Nefarious DisneyPrincess @ 26/4/2022, 04:42) This is the most distressing thing. I've never liked the look of Winnie but really that is Jens fault and now this end of life bullshit is horrible. I did not see it going like this. Poor Winnie.
I know many of us hope we are wrong about Mother’s Day Weekend and Winnie’s fate. But the truth is we have 12+ years of content to back up our expectations, which is sad indeed. The only light at the end of the tunnel really is that when Winnie crosses the rainbow bridge she will be free from Jen’s craziness. |
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| QUOTE (Deadeyeslikejen @ 26/4/2022, 02:56) If she reads we are onto her about her about her possibly putting the dog down in May, will she reschedule? 
I think she will take a moment to pause….and think maybe she should wait. But in the end, the potential for narc supply she could receive on Mother’s Day weekend will be too great. She won’t miss the opportunity. |
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| QUOTE (Deadeyeslikejen @ 26/4/2022, 02:41) QUOTE (BespokeMuffins @ 26/4/2022, 02:26) Do we think Jen would stoop so low as to not be there for the euthanasia? I go back and forth on this a little but I could honestly see Jen leaving the hard stuff for other people (even in this area). She has a very avoidant personality.
I don’t think she will be with Winnie until she takes her last breath. I think she will give the order to do it, and then run to her van. Then she will do an IG about it. Or at least save the video until Mother’s Day weekend and then talk about how it’s a bittersweet time. No kids and no Winnie. She will be all alone just like she wanted. |
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| QUOTE (Nefarious Sharewithblunder @ 25/4/2022, 23:51) Yes. I agree. The whole wanting to be with Winnie for April and then doing all her travel from May makes it sound like there is a countdown. I bet she will do a whole instastory about taking Winnie to the vet with a tearful update saying there is nothing they can do so they had to put her down.
If it happens around the time of the wedding, the bakery will explode. Be warned Jen.
Agreed. She has annoyed me in the past, but I keep coming back to see what other sh!t she is getting away with. If things “unfold” this way, it will be the equivalent, for me, to the SaconneJoly cold shower video. It will be the finally straw.
To let her dog suffered longer than necessary, because she wants to take away from Don’s wedding day is just sick.
I also think it’s curious that she didn’t travel this month, but didn’t seem to do anything else instead is also weird. So, I am suspicious. |
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| QUOTE (DonsiPad @ 25/4/2022, 04:10) Late to the party always (LikeJen) but that Dealing with Doubt video is creepy to watch now. I was so confused when it came out in 2019. I personally did NOT see the divorce coming. It is crystal clear now.
Jen is says a lot of words like hope, trust and connection and she has know idea of what is involved with actually cultivating any of it. I think she was going through PPD at the time of the video and Don wasn’t really receptive to her challenges. I suspect because he couldn’t tell the difference between regular Jen mood swings and word vomit and PPD Jen.
Here’s how you do things like connect and trust others Jen. Know who you are AND be willing to do and share with others without expecting anything in return. When you are in a healthy relationship it’s about what you create together as a “we” instead of focusing on “me”. But to do this, you MUST know who you are and what you want. If you don’t know who you are, you will go along with anything until you realize what you don’t want, i.e. kids, but by then it’s too late.
BTW: I think she felt the most comfortable with being a mother because she feels indifferent to her kids. She loves them in her way, and she decided early on they will have to bend to her will, and will like what she likes and do what she does. |
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| QUOTE (husbandontherun @ 23/4/2022, 22:35) QUOTE (Spork Meltdown @ 23/4/2022, 22:27) I think Don has the kids 90% of the time!
ETA: let me rephrase that - I think 90% of the kids time is either at school or with Don & Tens. So around other people and especially kids their age. Which is the best thing that could happen to them.
I really hope for the kids sake, everyone involved has realized Jen is much better as an after school baby sitter.
Not to mention having the kids have one primary residence adds to their feeling of stability rather than being shuffled around every few days, like they originally planned. |
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| QUOTE (Saygoodnightgraciedo @ 23/4/2022, 01:50) My take on this it has nothing to do with Social Services or the police if that was the case all his social media would be shut down. It’s all about him looking bad and he isn’t grown up enough to take the heat because he can’t blame it on the trolls anymore and he is in panic mode now. We all know he isn’t a good liar so that won’t save him! This is the end of the Sacconeyjolys 🥂🎉🙏🏻
I wonder if not having the power of Gleam behind him was also a factor. I really don’t care what finally lead him to do it, i just hope he deletes all of his social media with the kids. |
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| Does anyone think that this massive YouTube video delete will last?
Also, do you think it’s because of the Dad Challenge Podcast videos he did about Stacy Dooley? |
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| I’m going as Jen’s Lux Bag Lady. It always amazed me how many expensive bags, totes, clutches and backpacks she had, given the fact she barely left the house.
Out of full discloser, Jen inspired me to purchase the following items: Fresh Advance Lip balm, packing cubes, and a Henri Bendel Convertible Backpack (sadly no longer available). Please note, I did not personalize my bag, because I’m not stupid. I still have and use each of these things. I’m a bag muffin top lady and proud of it. |
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| QUOTE (NoWireHangersEver! @ 19/4/2022, 06:06) Lots of people blow up their marriages, get divorced and have their lives turned inside out. The biggest difference with Jen from most others like her is not having any financial concerns to include navigating a work schedule and co-parenting. I think that difference alone would really make it easier (not easy, easier) to move forward for most.
The pace in which Jen seems to be processing what happened is like molasses and really stands out. She gets fixated on new things (Peleton, Dopey Runs, Solo travel, etc.), but its clear she is not moving forward. She is not creating a new life for herself and her kids in a way that is lasting and meaningful. She is just jumping from one craze to another and thinks that's progress. I think this shows just how completely dependent she was on D**. She treated him like crap and had no idea how much she needed him just to get through daily life. It seems like she isn't even capable to figure it out and move forward. How long will it take?
While D** is remarried and has clearly moved on, I can't help but wonder how much and in what ways he still helps her. I somehow think he does for the sake of the kids. Thoughts?
I think your response is very insightful and must agree 100%. I do think Don helps her but in more overt ways. He helps her by picking up the slack in terms of giving the kids what they really need both in nice experiences and things, but also in terms of emotional support. Sadly, I do think Jen expects him to more for the kids, because he’s the one that wanted them. I do think he’s full of himself, but I have no doubt he will do whatever he can for those he loves. I do think they try to minimize contact because of his new family dynamics. It would only take a few negative experiences before Tens would ask that Jen not come around.
I always got the impression Don was supportive, but in different to whatever Jen was into. He knew that she would flutter from one thing to the next, so I think he gave up trying to understand her attraction to different trends. Maybe it bothered her that he didn’t really care either way? I think she wanted more praise and excitement from him, than his standard indifferent, but supportive reply. I mean, it would have bothered me, if my husband felt indifferent to how I spent my time or what I was interested in. |
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