The Gossip Bakery

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    QUOTE (JourneyLikeJen @ 28/1/2022, 03:34) 
    QUOTE (JoiRisen @ 1/27/2022, 08:30 PM)
    I didn’t see any dresses in the stories. Hmm

    These weren't the races that she wore the dresses for. These were the Wine & Dine races in November.

    The Dopey races in January were the ones she wore the dresses for.

    Ohhh ok wow she’s really sticking to this extra delayed ass schedule
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    I didn’t see any dresses in the stories. Hmm
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    QUOTE (RikkiJones @ 23/1/2022, 05:48) 
    Well of course she sucked in her stomach. If you watched all of the stories she sucked in then laughed and then let her gut out. But she’s delusional if she thinks she has abs.

    QUOTE (Yetta @ 23/1/2022, 05:46) 
    But, if he moved out that means that they were separated, so not actually cheating

    Until the divorce papers are signed I would say it would be cheating.

    Agreed! I’m trying to understand the justification of sleeping with someone when YOURE STILL MARRIED, separated or not. But I acknowledge that many people get married nowadays for legal and societal reasons not the religious covenant like they used to. Lol I’m under 30 but I guess I’m “old school” in that way. I wouldn’t lie with another man until I am fully divorced from my current one. But everyone’s values don’t have to align with mine.
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    I don't think they are the same. I think body check is like "fit check" like "check out my body."

    I had a close friend and one time roommate who suffered from a host of issues relating to food and her body. She would do a routine in front of her full length mirror of a series of poses and views of her body. She did it almost automatically, like subconsciously, and thought it was normal. She would walk past this mirror and do a set of movements and based on how she viewed herself she would eat/starve or workout or cry or any number of outcomes.

    I am no expert but this link helps www.verywellmind.com/reduce-body-c...y-steps-1138366
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    Oh ok I see what you’re saying. And thanks for the link. I’m always weary of inadvertently supporting folks with dysmorphia and or disordered eating habits. Ever since I RAVED about how good my high school friend looked at prom and how awesome her weight loss was. She later shared that all that praise just continued to fuel her anorexia and I had no idea. I don’t want those kind of girls, or boys, feeling justified in harming themselves because “look at how many more IG followers I have with this body vs that one” or whatever.
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    QUOTE (walkingpharmacy @ 23/1/2022, 02:33) 
    Jen has long been guilty of something called "body checking" which is a compulsion to look at or compare how your body looks. Often you use a specific object to compare (I am skinnier than this thing) or in a specific spot so you can see change over time. Like you always body check in the same mirror.

    This is different than looking at your outfit in your full length mirror or looking at something on your body from different angles in a dressing room. It has the specific purpose of serving your disordered view of your body.

    I have never seen anyone - not an fitness blogger/influencer, not a body builder, not a regular influencer, not a friend or family member - post their body checking routine online.

    This isn't showing off gains or changes. You can tell she is doing a prescribed routine she does to see how her body looks.

    She needs help.

    Is this different than the #bodycheck hashtag that a lot of IG fitness girls use? Have I been following disordered “fit girls” this whole time?
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    Was Don Jen’s first and only? I know we joke about it but good D really can change your attitude. Especially is she’s NEVER had it. Stella got her groove back somehow and I wasn’t the mojitos that did it.
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    Totally agree about Don
    He left her then got on the Dating site
    All the conjecture otherwise is just silly

    I know a lot of young women slightly younger than her- NONE post pics of their body online- she really is an odd person
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    Really? It’s crazy to me how wildly different peoples social feeds can be. I’ve seen women in actual bras on IG. Full lingerie actually. Or mothers who post YouTube videos modeling savage x fenty or that other lingerie line. Don’t get me started on all the girlies who literally only wear sports bras and workout pants and it’s ok because it’s a “fitness page”. In fact I can’t think of a single fitness page that doesn’t feature a chick in a bra. Not jenfending either, just saying she’s not unique in her “scandalous” bra pic lol. I was expecting something way more out there when I read the comments here lol.
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    QUOTE (ManicLikeJen @ 22/1/2022, 16:12) 
    QUOTE (hardswallowtsk @ 22/1/2022, 13:29) 
    I am almost 100% sure he did cheat on her.

    Around the nov 2019 divorce train at its peak around here, on her instagram, there were 2 different instagram accounts that had tagged her. They were very obviously instagram " prostitutes " , sometimes called models. funny that they remained on her tags for a few months until she obviously caught on when she paid attention & the deleted them....

    My son who is 19 has given me an entire education on instagram & now tik Tok, that for those that want to pay for sex and sugar daddies the apps are ripe with these " models " She had 2 girls tag her 1 had bleach bleach blond hair & the other black hair. They were located in her part of the country.

    I believe Don had a super unhealthy relationship with paying for sex, bc her wonderland had shut down & he had all the money in the world. I believe he has a super kink that she was unwilling to do anything with. The baker that matched with Don on tinder ( or bakers friend? ) around the same time verified everything we were speculating.

    Tins needs to keep her heckles up with him b/c a leopard never changes his spots. He will get bored with her and eventually head back for paid sex b/c its just too easy for him.

    To be fair on Don Jen was super bitchy to him on the vlogs after CC was born. In real life she would be much worse imo.

    He was getting nothing from the marriage. No companionship, no emotional or physical connection.

    Basically Jen killed the marriage. Dead.

    Well this is a sad standard for married people. Instead of leaving like an adult, it’s ok to pay for sex work if your spouse is someone you no longer like. I mean hate Jen for being Jen but this is just eww.
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    QUOTE (mhwlsadlynolongeravailable @ 21/1/2022, 16:41) 
    I'm probably in the minority with this theory, but it seems like maybe she finally started taking something? She just seems like such a totally different person in this video.

    Yea I wonder if she may actually, kinda sorta, really working on her shit? I’m hopeful. I know, I know Jen isn’t capable of change BUT I have reasons.

    1. She called it her reckoning. So she understands that she has consequences for her actions and that she is reaping the fruit of what SHE sewed.

    2. She admitted that she lost people because SHE is the problem. My damn mouth dropped when she said that one lol.
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    QUOTE (FocusOnTheThighs @ 21/1/2022, 14:34) 
    QUOTE (MissReview @ 1/21/2022, 04:34 AM) 
    That cut is super cute.

    However, I'm not sure it would look good with her bald spots. She's had them on the side of her head even in the beginning.

    As the owner of a variation of pixie cuts -and hair to my shoulders- over the years (am nowhere near as cute as this model), Jen would look ridiculous in a pixie, and for this super cute one you need full hair, and a lot of it! You can rock a pixie if you have fine hair, but it does look best when you have lots of it. There's just no hiding :)

    I hate when y’all make me defend Jen. BUT pixies are actually one of the best styles for people with thin and fine hair and the WORST for girls with denser hair. I could go on and on explaining the difference between density and texture and how that all culminates and what a good cut can do but whatever. Point is, a Locke would actually be great on her IF ITS CUT RIGHT and easy for her to style and maintain herself. People go wrong getting intricate cuts then don’t know what to do with them at home and look dumb a week later lol.

    Source: I have fine, medium density hair and a pixie that my mother (a stylist of over 30 years) gave me and keeps the shape for me.

    Also for the Olaplex talk, the No3 ain’t nothing but a good protein treatment. Don’t use it often or your hair will become brittle. If you’ll like a cheaper option with like 200x the amount of product try Aphogee 2 step Protein treatment. You’re welcome.
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    Also being a part of the bakery has given me more interaction with Jen than being a fan ever did. She actually responds to us on here
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    Two things.

    one imagine telling your children to tell complete strangers that they are feeling better and recording that. weird.

    Two didn’t someone call that she would eventually post her peloton again because she needed the kudos
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    QUOTE (JustAverageJane @ 10/1/2022, 02:39) 
    What was her finish? I found this for example of times for women runners. I am having a hard time imagining a 90 year old woman walking in a marathon for 16 hrs.

    Idk but nice to see that peak fitness is 20-40 not >20 lol. There’s still hope for me yet
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    QUOTE (Party of 7 @ 9/1/2022, 19:55) 

    The woman in pink behind Jen is the size 4/6 she claims to be lmao. Make it make sense Jen. I agree with someone above, definitely about a 12-14ish. Which wouldn’t matter if she didn’t lie so much!
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    QUOTE (DonlessJen @ 9/1/2022, 17:11) 
    Yup, she was hiding the training stats. All those malfunctions she had, saying things weren't registering correctly. That was all just a cover up.

    Why does she lie like this? Like seriously why is she going out of her way to come up with these elaborate lies about the weird selfish sh*t she does? If she feels so high and mighty and can do no wrong then why all the lying. It’s so strange to me. A full grown woman and mother of 2 lying out her ass like a preteen caught sneaking out.
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