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Love the thread title, great work. 
Melissa, STFU with the constant talk about how tired you are. You rolled out of bed and put a pot pie in the oven for dinner. You admitted you did nothing with the girls and they stayed in their PJs all day. Patti is out of town otherwise she would have taken the girls while Andres was at work. Why wouldn’t you have signed the girls up for some day camps so they could have some fun this summer? Too expensive? I’m sure this 4th kid was a great idea.. -
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Her viewers build her ego up big time. How does she do it all, do what? She works one 12 hr shift a week, her kids are on auto pilot upstairs when she’s down stairs “studying” or sleeping, her kids have 4 hrs of quite time a day, I don’t do YouTube but how hard is it to upload a view? Well her vlogs are pretty boring so I’m sure she’s trying to pick through her bullshit day trying to piece together footage for a vlog. Andres does all the work around the house, I mean come on if anyone needs a vacation it’s Andres. Also why are all her viewers using her being pregnant as an excuse for being lazy? Jesus are they that stupid to not realize she’s obese and putting her unborn child’s life at risk for her poor eating habits? She’s pregnant not diagnosed with a terminal illness. Attached Image
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Melissa gets on my last nerve. She is an insult to parents everywhere. If she needs time to "study" then why not send the kids to camp for at least a few days a week? Or mornings? Don't the girls have friends? Why not make a playdate with a friend so they can go play at someone's house for a few hours? If they are so "blessed" and have so much money, then camp or other activities should not be a problem. The girls are bored. They do nothing all day--hell, they barely go outside and play in the yard! They are cooped up in the house because Melissa is too lazy, ignorant, or "tired" to make an effort for her children. But she took them to Seaworld because she "felt bad" and wanted to give them a break. No, Melissa, YOU wanted a break from "studying". How the hell did you expect to take classes, have the girls home all summer, and on top of it be pregnant? When the baby comes, I would bet she will quit school and never finish. What a joke.. -
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I am in awe of her complete lack of self awareness. She complains constantly about how exhausted she is because of her pregnancy, but she did it just as often when not pregnant. Does she really not see that watching back her vlogs? I have never heard anyone complain so much about being tired constantly in my life. She's done it for YEARS. Maybe she wouldn't be so tired if she actually got up off the couch once in a while and moved her body. Losing at least 100 lbs would greatly help too. Otherwise she needs to shut up about it, because nobody in the world wants to watch you complain constantly about how exhausted you are when you do the bare minimum. . -
.I am in awe of her complete lack of self awareness. She complains constantly about how exhausted she is because of her pregnancy, but she did it just as often when not pregnant. Does she really not see that watching back her vlogs? I have never heard anyone complain so much about being tired constantly in my life. She's done it for YEARS. Maybe she wouldn't be so tired if she actually got up off the couch once in a while and moved her body. Losing at least 100 lbs would greatly help too. Otherwise she needs to shut up about it, because nobody in the world wants to watch you complain constantly about how exhausted you are when you do the bare minimum.
She lacks self-awareness in many ways including what a crappy parent she is and SELFISH doesn't even begin to describe it!
She also lacks self-awareness about her size. I am all about acceptance, but she acts like she is a Victoria Secret model..... -
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Melissa gets on my last nerve. She is an insult to parents everywhere. If she needs time to "study" then why not send the kids to camp for at least a few days a week? Or mornings? Don't the girls have friends? Why not make a playdate with a friend so they can go play at someone's house for a few hours? If they are so "blessed" and have so much money, then camp or other activities should not be a problem. The girls are bored. They do nothing all day--hell, they barely go outside and play in the yard! They are cooped up in the house because Melissa is too lazy, ignorant, or "tired" to make an effort for her children. But she took them to Seaworld because she "felt bad" and wanted to give them a break. No, Melissa, YOU wanted a break from "studying". How the hell did you expect to take classes, have the girls home all summer, and on top of it be pregnant? When the baby comes, I would bet she will quit school and never finish. What a joke.
I am a mom of 2 that are a year apart and they are too young for school. I am also a student and not online, I have actual classes with labs. Study time when the kids are awake and need attention does not happen. They also don't take 4 hour naps. You go to bed late, you wake up early, you don't watch 10hours of TV a day. Houses need to be cleaned, meals need to be made and not a frozen sandwich, kids need to have play time, activities, outside time, get out and about, ECT. Story time at the library damn anything. And if you are a parent and need study time during the day find someone to watch your kids. If you have time to watch teenmom and 10 other shows you have time to get an A. -
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HELL YES!! You are a REAL parent. That is what you do when you have kids--you pay attention to them and get your own things done when you can even if it means you don't get to sleep as much. You are awesome. . -
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What I don't get about her nursing study is that most doctors and nurses work full-time, often doing long shifts than most people and in addition, they have to study to pass exams to complete training levels (this is in the UK for our specialism training) etc. as well as raising families and what knows else.
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.HELL YES!! You are a REAL parent. That is what you do when you have kids--you pay attention to them and get your own things done when you can even if it means you don't get to sleep as much. You are awesome.
Thanks! Not perfect by any means but I can't stand the amount of TV she watches and that she thinks she needs 8+ hours of sleep to function.. -
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I hate that Melissa is lazy AF but her minions celebrate her like she's mother of the year when in reality her life revolves around her TV schedule. However this isn't a contest about who works harder than her. People normally do what they have to without complaining she is a rare breed of annoying though. Everything she does she expects a standing ovation even though it's normal shit like feeding the kids.
If she wanted to be home for the sake of the kids and actually did things that are beneficial to their well being, education and life I would be more than fine with it.
I'm a housewife and I was a housewife before I got pregnant because my husband makes more than enough for us to live comfortably. I enjoy my life and there is nothing wrong with that. I know that's the kind of life Melissa secretly want but to accomplish that she shouldn't have married a waiter at Olive Garden. -
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I’m probably in the very rare minority in that I think Melissa does do a lot. She has three young children, has a seasonal tax job, a part time nursing job, vlogs almost daily, and is studying for additional credentials. I think her obesity plays into a lot of the accusations of being “lazy.”
My problem with her is she’s terrible at everything that she does do. She studies when she should be stimulating her children. She’s clueless when it comes to parenting (I still can’t get over the pink cage permanently parked in front of the blaring TV). She goes to work at a HOSPITAL having not showered for days and reeking of perfume and body spray. And her financial choices are a complete train wreck. Having a fourth child is beyond irresponsible.
This isn’t all on Melissa. Andres was definitely behind the push for a fourth. And he makes the financial choices of a fifteen year old (the truck, the random impulse time share purchase, and then he ordered Disney time share materials after their last trip!!). I also side eye someone who has spent his entire career working at Olive Garden and has nothing to advance himself (no career advancement, no further education, no side hustle).. -
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So what was the point of buying that pool? They used it maybe once. . -
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What does she expect? When you have kids you will be tired. But that is no excuse to just dump your kids in front of the tv, spend most of your time “studying” (watching tv and being on social media), and spend the rest of the day complaining about how tired you are. I seriously don’t understand. ALL moms are tired yet we still manage to go a full day without a nap and whining non stop about how we are just sooooo tired and need a nap! I’m a full time night nurse. I do 12 hour shifts. 4 months ago I was 9 months pregnant. I would work my shift, come home, sleep for 3 hours, and then wake up as soon as hubby left for work to take care of my two year old. I never just laid on the couch all day. Although I was exhausted I would wake up and cook him lunch. Then we would go out somewhere- and it wasn’t always something extravagant. We have an amazing library that we take advantage of and multiple parks in our area that we frequently go to. We would then come home, I would play with him (yes Melissa when you have children you should interact with them), read to him, cook dinner, eat, bathe him, put him to bed and then clean and do laundry. And if I’m off the next night I get up as early as possible so I can get all the things I want to do for myself done (workout, read, do my hair, catch up on a show, etc). If I’m not off the next night I get up at 8am the latest cus that’s the latest he sleeps in, do everything I mentioned above, possibly nap for an hour while my son naps, and then go and do another 12 hour shift. Now that I’m not pregnant I do all this still but with a three month old attached to me. This is parenting. You do what you have to do but your children are a priority. You have to study but feel bad for the girls? Take them out, play with them, and study when they go to sleep or wake up early and study instead of watching your shows. It’s called sacrifice. And if she can’t handle it she really shouldn’t have had another baby that she will be locking up in a room so she can take a 4 hour nap .
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