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I’m still Team She Expected Him to Fight for Her and He Didn’t. That’s the shock & awe she’s reeling from. She mentally beat him down so bad since the kids were born that even he had enough and doesn’t care the cost to unload her. If he’s THAT brilliant in Finance, he’ll make it all back and then some. He’s young enough. . -
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Dang! I scrubbed toilets today and forgot to film IG stories. Sorry, friends. . -
.No wait, are we supposed to be isolating our packages for a number of days before opening them? Seriously?
I am just opening boxes and removing packaging immediately to the garage, then wiping down the counter where the packaging touched, then washing my hands. Is that the wrong way to do this?
If I were a planner “influencer” I would probably require a specific amount of time to receive a product and then review it or show it online. It requires... planning. If EC sent things out late, too fuckin bad. Not my pig, not my farm, not my problem. It still takes X days.
I'm not isolating my packages or wiping anything down (not my groceries either), but I'm not high risk for coronavirus and I live alone. *shrug*
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.I’m still Team She Expected Him to Fight for Her and He Didn’t. That’s the shock & awe she’s reeling from. She mentally beat him down so bad since the kids were born that even he had enough and doesn’t care the cost to unload her. If he’s THAT brilliant in Finance, he’ll make it all back and then some. He’s young enough.
I subscribe to this theory as well
I’m torn between what u said exactly and he just left lolOk, so Don couldn’t handle Jen’s stubbornness anymore > asks her for divorce > left Donny & CC to her hands and left to get his own apartment. Well, I just couldn’t picture Don being so cold-hearted you know? the few things that bothered me is a. Don didn’t leave the marriage to look for other woman who would appreciate him and share the same love to replace Jen but rather, he went on a vindictive mission to get orgy party with bunch of women wanting “polyamory” which looked like he was out for a revenge against Jen not wanting him anymore as a man you know? b. Don looked like he had boiling anger against Jen on Christmas morning (rather than being calm with his decision for the cool ending of their marriage to look for a fresh new partner), which is caused by being betrayed by Jen he invested 17 years of his life. c. Jen reading her journal about “like a dagger to my heart, would I stay the same in my circle? Would my children be still happy? - She kept being shamed and she decided to leave -me! “ shows that the divorce was more of her own volition out of her own thinking. d. She keeps saying “I had to do this for my family. I would do anything for my children even if I have to break my heart every day” sounds like she’s the one who forced her kids on the split family situation and she’s aware of the consequences she brought upon. But anyways, that was my thoughts because certain stuff and words from both of them were questionable to me.
This is to well said too
I’m so conflictedBut why? What’s the motive? Don is the one who wanted family and children why would he blow it up out of nowhere when Donny is only 1 (who is by the way a boy that he wanted so bad which he wanted to try third child if the second one was a girl)? And why would he go on Tinder to get hookups with as many women as possible? To me it looked like a defense-mechanism against Jen like doing a revenge party against Jen rejecting him and wanting the breakup/divorce. Also, Jen is constantly worrying about financial situation which means Don is not willing to support her much anymore, which doesn’t make sense when you see him indulging her for 17 years, and certainly he is not some kind of a cold man who would just dump her without abundant financial support. Not giving her much financial happiness is also a part of revenge against Jen (okay if you want divorce then I’m not gonna indulge you anymore, you’re on your own.)
That assumes that what Jen is telling the world is the whole truth... which... I find unlikely.
I could totally see Don trying to get Jen to grow up after having kids and her answer to that was shitquotes, going "plant based", getting way too into Glennon and her ilk, basically a big F you to everyone for trying to "control" her. She needs to live life on her terms and anyone who tries to tell her otherwise can go stuff it. I think she stopped being a supportive wife, as much as she had been anyway, probably stopped putting out and chucked his meat out of the house, literally and figuratively. She shat all over him and I'm sure he just had enough of it. I'm sure she never thought he'd divorce her, probably because kids and whatnot, but that she'd force him to do things her way as punishment for making her have kids and give up her formerly ME ME ME all the time lifestyle.
With respect to the financial thing, I think she will be TOTALLY FINE. I think she's probably getting plenty in child support/alimony but she wants sympathy and head pats because she feels so shitty about being dumped and is looking for accolades from her loyal minions. If she was really hard up for cash, she could do a whole hell of a lot better with this whole YouTube/IG influencer thing and actually try to make some cash, not just talk about it.
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I think what we all agree that whether Jen or Don initiated the divorce, the fact that it’s actually happening is not the outcome she was expecting. All this rah rah empowered single mama nonsense is a complete farce. We can see the struggle is written all over her face and hear it in her maniacal fake laugh as her children push her further and further towards her breaking point.
How much of her unravelling is divorce related and how much is Corona related (or more accurately, being saddled with her kids all day every day because of Corona), we’ll never know. But I’m over here like
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.I think what we all agree that whether Jen or Don initiated the divorce, the fact that it’s actually happening is not the outcome she was expecting. All this rah rah empowered single mama nonsense is a complete farce. We can see the struggle is written all over her face and hear it in her maniacal fake laugh as her children push her further and further towards her breaking point.
How much of her unravelling is divorce related and how much is Corona related (or more accurately, being saddled with her kids all day every day because of Corona), we’ll never know. But I’m over here like
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I have a theory. She was so pissed at him and on such a high horse in the first Disney vlog with CC. Maybe he cheated back then (physical, porn or otherwise) and she really has been contemplating leaving since then. I mean who can forget him asking if she wanted him in the picture? She was so cold to him and superior looking the whole time. Maybe they tried to work it out but couldn't. Maybe Tinder was the final straw? Also right after that he let her renovate the while house with the new kitchen and claundry. Either way, this is the total opposite of revenge glow up!
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.He obviously left her because she wouldn't share her f-ing hashbrown with him. He's been thinking about it for years.
Ps my husband did not believe that even from Jen until I showed him.
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.What was the comment that some of you noticed in the video of Donny's birthday? I didn't hear anything. Don seemed a little cool towards Jen (and he looked UGLY).
Listen around 1:07. She trips over her words saying she thinks it’s so cute that Don is coming back...then switches gears mid sentence and says Don took charlotte to...blah blah blah.. -
.Maybe I have the emotional range of a teaspoon, but someone who has been debating a decision "for years" and finally left a situation she indicates was awful (reading between the lines on her revisionist history shitquotes and IG stories), does not look like so much shit in a video in October (her office intro video) and does not act the way she has been, in my opinion. She is totally acting like someone who got dumped
I would apply this thinking to most normal people...but not our Jen. she loves to be miserable. I think she'd look like shit regardless because she loves the "poor Jen" comments
plus I mainly think she looks like shit because the kids are home all day. she thought she was home free - got rid of Don, would have his money, and most importantly would have ME time for half the day. all she'd have to do is make a few grilled cheese sandwiches then it's nap time and back to more ME time! that's what's doing her in right now. she's dying for those kids to be in school and out of her one hair so she can focus on her feelings and journey
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I was mistaken....the trip I'm speaking of was not the same trip as asking about the picture. I was talking about is November 2017...her face at around 24:00. . -
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I dip in & out of Jen's videos. I can't take her navel-gazing Instagram stories.
I am seriously worried about this girl. I have had 2 major depressions in the past 5 years & I see many distressing signs in her behavior. She needs a month at an inpatient treatment center for depression & eating disorder. Someone in her life needs to step in & get her help.
With regards to the divorce, I think she saw herself as an untamed, daring greatly warrior shaking the bonds of other's expectations. Girl, she was going to wash her face & rise strong. But she has about 7 days of foresight & reality is setting in about what her life is now. She has never had challenges in her life so she has no real strength of character to draw on. Whenever I start to feel sorry for her, I remember that she has always made the easy choice.
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I’ve read each synopsis on who left who....I really think he left her.
I think she felt she “had” to produce children. Probably started pulling away from him after CC. Maybe PPD? Don pressures her for second/boy child. She gave in, again. And this put her over the edge.
I think she probably upped the passive aggressiveness with him. Then she went to Oregon (?). He calls while she’s gone, asks for separation and moves out. Gets his own place and voila, Tindergate.
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.He obviously left her because she wouldn't share her f-ing hashbrown with him. He's been thinking about it for years.
Ps my husband did not believe that even from Jen until I showed him.
If my husband did not share his hash brown with me, there would be hell to pay.
I’m totally going to sound like a complete stalker but I’ve seen every video - her fantasy life got my through some shit lol
But I always think about the San Francisco vlogs of her 2012 glory days when the has brown incident is mentioned
there was one scene where she was absolutely amazed by those boxy touch screen soda machines (that are in a lot of movie theaters now) where you can get like a particular soda/soft drink in an array of flavors and she was doing her routine of utter amazement and confusion and she had to inform everyone that she doesn’t drink pop or whatever and she was going on and on about like a strawberry sprite and she’s like Don what would you get and he’s like Vanilla Coke and she’s like strawberry sprite it is ...
And I just remember thinking - Don Don just ushered her from mulberry to longchamp to sephora ... I’d have let him have the Vanilla Coke.
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