The Mills Family Part 11: Delete, Block, Repeat.

I think that behind that loud, arrogant, ignorant facade there is a sad, pathetic, lonely and very insecure man. He proves this every single time he opens his mouth. He is desperate to be in control of every single thing and every single person. He is desperate to be the best and to be better than everybody else at everything.

Andrea was talking about Sudoku in one of their live dinners. She loved doing Sudoku and she reached Masters level. She was calm and patient and viewed it as a puzzle, nothing more. She then said that Tommo refused to do Sudoku anymore. She made light of it all and she wasn't putting him down or anything like that...she just said that he couldn't do the Masters level puzzles and he didn't want to start at beginners level and work up through the levels....he wanted to start at Masters level and he expected to be able to do better than her. When he could not do that, he refused to do Sudoku again. Isn't that like the kid in the yard at school who wants to be team leader and if somebody else is picked....they throw a tantrum and wont play at all?

He is scared of food. He is scared of the crock pot. My guess is that he is so scared of life that he has conflicting and desperate needs to be in control of every single thing and at the same time to be "cared for" like a little kid. He is very conflicted and he is blind to that. Or maybe he knows that is the case and he refuses to admit it to himself.

He has to be stronger and faster than his own sons. He has to win at everything....Magic, videogames, everything. He has to know more about the Bible than anybody else on the channel. He has to know more about nutrition and health and everything, than everybody else. Tommo is his own biggest fan. He is also his own biggest enemy. And he is the biggest hater and troll on his own channel.

He never had any respect for the YouTube people. If he did he would never shout them down all the time and delete comments that are trying to be helpful just because he does not agree with them. He would not ignore kind and loyal friends when it suits him. Just because he is in a funk or feeling crazy in love with his latest hot chick...that does not give him the right to be rude and dismissive to the faithful YouTube subscribers who have been there for him in his good days and in his bad days. They are the first folks he goes running to, crying, when things go wrong in his life....when he breaks up with a woman, when he dreads going to work on Mondays, when he is sad and lonely and grieving. They are the folks he turns to then and they are always there, ready to listen and to comfort him. Their loyalty to the channel is what earns his monthly YouTube check. Their time, their views.

They are also the first folks he drops when things are going well and he is happy..... When he has a new woman and he is crazy with excitement. The YouTube folks are then the folks that he drops....and they are the ones he (and the new girlfriend) taunt and click bait and play mind games with...while they cackle away and think its hysterical. The videos get shorter. The live streams stop. He does just enough to keep the YouTube checks coming.

He is a very needy, desperate man who is desperate for attention and for praise. Add greedy to that list and there you have ole Tommo. He is happy to take and take and take from folks who have less than he has.

Pride, arrogance, ego and greed. That sums him up nicely!

That's totally pathetic that a grown a** man couldn't stand the fact that someone could do something that he couldn't. Andrea worked on a skill and improved it to the point that she was able to do advanced Sudoku. This is just another example of Tom not only not wanting to work for something and thinking he's some brilliant genius, but him not being able to handle someone else being more adept than him, especially a woman and his wife at that. The woman who marries him will be in for a rude awakening and very unhappy relationship. I don't understand why women think that they can change men/people like Tom. People like him don't change, or only do so of their own volition.

Hannah gets whacked in the face with a milk jug bc Tom refuses to use a cart to take groceries to his car.

I am glad someone gently called him out on Mommie’s job bs. He got frazzled and you could tell ticked off. Hey! In case you didn’t know, Tom seems to have gotten degrees in Distilled Water Engineering and an associates in cheese. He is sooooo smart - if you don’t believe it - just ask him! He’ll tell you.

It's unbelievable that he thinks the only problem was that he was "politically incorrect" (or as Tom said, "un-politically correct"). Not at all, Tom. That has nothing to do with it. You're just a lazy, lazy man. Many many fathers have huge roles in their families taking care of the household and children. It's just you, and other man-children like you, who treat their wives like their mothers and act like extra children in the house. That isn't a "value" you hold, it's a character flaw, and you are pathetic. It's actually disgusting that he thinks moms/wives are MEANT to do everything in the house, while the dad's job is to "play." Which he doesn't even do, unless it's video games!

It's just embarrassing the way Tom is shrugging off Tammy's questions about whether the package she bought for Hannah arrived. She's trying to politely insist he check whether it has arrived so she can get her money back if it hasn't! But that only reminded Tom that he wanted to open an envelope that had some Magic nonsense in it. I guess if Tammy wanted her gift opened, she should've sent Magic shit to Tom, not clothing to his children. I hope this attitude of his makes everyone wise up and stop sending anything, but they are all naive. Someone just commented that Tom is too ungrateful to be bothered to look for it!!