CravingNorwegianWoodLikeJen Pt. 270

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    QUOTE (DominantJunk @ 17/8/2021, 14:59) 
    QUOTE (pinksims @ 17/8/2021, 13:21) 
    Basically the simplified version of the Jen cycle is a constant oversharing and pulling back tug of war, where Jen's desperate need for attention is in a battle with her realisation that offering her life up for public comment will result in public comments.

    Could’ve saved her so much money in therapy fees, because this sums it up.

    I keep thinking how bizarre it must be to be a Ross (or a Boyles) and know that this level of mental illness (like it or not, that’s what it is, this is not a well adjusted, well functioning human we’re talking about here) is not only displayed on the internet, but there are hundreds of people who are watching her create her own downfall, and create her own problems. It’s very Truman Show-esque and it’s downright bizarre.

    I know some vloggers (not big ones) in real life and it’s NBD, it’s just a thing they do. If it ever created this much turmoil and angst and just bananas behavior in their real life, we’d have all stepped in by now. It’s kind of sad when you think about the fact that Jen doesn’t have a group of people who care about her enough (and know her in real life) to say it’s time to get some help and time to start living an actual life and we’re going to help you through it. And not by sending marsha’s pottery or whatever it is and expensive olive oil, but actually BEING THERE for her.

    Some of her very old videos are still up and she has monetized them, her very first video is still up. That life is O.V.E.R.
    She is still getting money from them probably.
    She needs a part time job, some volunteering (maybe a dog shelter?) a few hours dedicated to something else that is not her feelings. She needs something to call her own, she needs to feel useful. Money is going to dry up and I honestly hope so for her, not to wish her bad but as a life lesson to gain some perspective, responsibility and maturity.

    She needs to stop for a while, take a year off, take everything down!!! and start new if she really wants to make something out of YT. Use her time off to heal, to downsize, to reconsider her life. Watching her is painful and it's out there for everybody to see it!

    Edited by VirutalHug - 17/8/2021, 15:28
     
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