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The problem Jen's got is that she's drifted into massive taboo territory as a mother of two children who doesn't enjoy or embrace parenthood. Unlike all the other hobbies she has cast aside over the years, she can't just decide that being a parent 'doesn't work for her' any more without causing an enormous uproar and scandal and losing every single one of her followers. Even DumbassLikeJen knows how fatal a blow that would be to her social media sharing and needing followers as a replacement for friends. She would never live it down. Even her own mother might stop speaking to her.
I also think that she is in denial about hating motherhood. In her head she convinces herself that she loves her precious babies, but her actions and choices show her real motivations which are to serve her own needs first and foremost. She puts herself and her selfish whims ahead of her children, and then is confused why people call her out for blatantly putting herself first. Not only that but she does nothing that involves the children's school or activities, doesn't socialise with other parents, and seems to do the absolute bare-minimum any time she has her kids around. Her psychological distance from her kids is the most astonishing part of all this.
If she gave up custody of the kids to D&T, she would lose more than just child support money. She would be completely cast out, both locally and online. Her followers would either abandon her or attack her for doing the unthinkable thing of choosing herself over parenthood. Her only option is to keep pretending she loves being a mother and keep defending her selfish actions, until the kids are older and self-sufficient and she doesn't have to keep pretending any more.
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