Lumpy Frosting
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The other night, as I was going to bed, it hit me how privileged I was, in my my nice house in a safe suburb in the middle of a free country, to be able to lay myself down in a nice bed & fall asleep to the sounds of my sound spa & ceiling fan, knowing the kids were also safely asleep in their nice beds in their nice bedrooms while my husband, their dad, was working at a job in a safe environment - and that we were not awake listening to air raid sirens & worrying about whether or not we were about to be bombed & if my husband was going to be shot & killed defending our country from invasion.
I paused for a moment to be grateful, shed a few tears, & to say a prayer for the families in Ukraine.
But I did not post about it on any of my social media because NO ONE CARES & it’s not about ME.
And I do not need any “tethers of joy” to remind me to notice the good while still “holding the heartbreak.”
If anything, what the people of Ukraine are teaching me, Jen, is that, while the world has PLENTY of people who are gentle w/ themselves, what the world really needs is more people who are resilient & fierce & strong.
You ride your bike to nowhere while fangirling the Peloton instructors & all their “you can be resilient” cheers - but, Jen, you know NOTHING about true resilience because your entire existence is completely wrapped up in how to make your life gentle & easy & w/o any personal hardship or sacrifice of any kind.
Just think, for one minute, if every single person in the world woke up &, instead of actually doing anything, instead chose to be gentle w/ themselves. Think about the true single mothers if they decided to just be gentle w/ themselves. Think about the truck drivers who bring all the stuff you order. Think about the veterans, who you say you think about every day, if they had decided to just be gentle w/ themselves. Think about the relief workers.
Or maybe really think about the people of Ukraine & whether or not they can just choose to be gentle w/ themselves right now as they search, not for “tethers of joy” but tethers for survival.
And then reconsider what you’re posting & why.
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