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Everyone else has real stuff to care about, like WORK, kids, cleaning their houses & getting on with life. No one cares about Jen. . -
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I don't think this applies to Jen at all with what I know about her but I will say as a sudenly single woman I was told to my face that it would be great to have me at bbqs/parties etc IF I had a boyfriend. Then got dropped as a friend completely. 2 different women did it with very similar wording. I am the least thirsty bitch out there and their boring husbands were completely safe, but it was an eye opener how insecure people can be and how friends can turn on you when you bring, in their eyes, nothing to the table. . -
.that whole part was hilarious regardless of who it was about
Emily and Dave?
Jeff and Joe?
Naina and her husband?
Laken and her husband?
Wisconsin Rachel and her husband?
NONE of these people are afraid of being "touched" by divorce simply because of your failed marriage. I don't know any of them and I can guarantee that
they just...don't care about you. you're a no one and your life simply has no impact on them
Meow2 dropping the truth bombs!. -
The Ghost of Glenview's Past.
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I don't think this applies to Jen at all with what I know about her but I will say as a sudenly single woman I was told to my face that it would be great to have me at bbqs/parties etc IF I had a boyfriend. Then got dropped as a friend completely. 2 different women did it with very similar wording. I am the least thirsty bitch out there and their boring husbands were completely safe, but it was an eye opener how insecure people can be and how friends can turn on you when you bring, in their eyes, nothing to the table.
Anyone who knows Jen knows she has over 300 threads worth of counter content. No man in his right mind unless he has a fetish for psychological hot messes will want to touch her with a 10 ft pole. Ladies your marriage is safe.
That said, I am sorry your friends see you as a threat to their marriage. It says more about them and their husband than it says about you though. If you trust your man, if you trust your marriage.. a single lady is not an issue.. -
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The fact that Jen even thinks people look at her and think "hide your husbands." 🤣😂🤣😂 . -
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If I had an ex sister in law who did nothing….refused to work, refused to care for my nieces and nephews, took half of my brothers money, spent it on trips and toys for herself, still refused to work, insulted my family on a public You tube channel..helped herself to my parents home……
I’d be done with her, for sure. . But I would probably secretly hate her.. -
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We should have a poll who was Jenn Talking about
TLO & the husband
Emily
Emily & Suz
Laken / Planner Friends
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Could be any woman she perceives as having wronged her. Let s be honest if a teacher spoke to Don and Tens first and was delayed in acknowledging Jen.. Trigger!
Suzanne sat next to Tens...Trigger! Emily gave a hug to Tens but a polite hello to Jen...Trigger. Jen is behind on the Threads and realizes the TLO picture was Tens bathroom...Trigger!!!!!Sent via ForumFree Mobile
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Jen has the power to make things right by simply being honest, taking ownership of mistakes, apologizing for lies, etc.
When she began her YouTube journey that is what made her likable. She was open, shared, showed vulnerability. Her most recent video was one of her best in recent months because she opened up like she used to. THAT is what makes her likable. Jenfending, her words were true. Relationships do change after divorce. Maybe not for everyone, but for most. Her words will probably help others if they make it to the end of the video to hear them.. -
.that whole part was hilarious regardless of who it was about
Emily and Dave?
Jeff and Joe?
Naina and her husband?
Laken and her husband?
Wisconsin Rachel and her husband?
NONE of these people are afraid of being "touched" by divorce simply because of your failed marriage. I don't know any of them and I can guarantee that
they just...don't care about you. you're a no one and your life simply has no impact on them
She starts her Convo with- “Recently I had to be around the people who trigger me..”
“people who moved away from me
People who are no longer friends-Some surprised me”
HAS to be those attending the Kindergarten thing
Emily & Suzanne would be my choices
Referring to staying away from her because of insecurities in their own marriages was really odd and cold
She really really hates the Rosses now- it must kill her every time her kids are with them
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I don’t think she hates them. I think she’s mourning their loss. . -
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I just realized that I differently interpreted what Jen said about friends staying away from her after divorce because they feared for their own marriages.
I assumed she meant that because she thinks she is the poster girl for “Choosing Me” and now has so much freedom and time to contemplate her navel, that others were afraid of being lured in and seduced by Jen’s “great new life choices.” You know, the way she believed all the Glennon Doyle BS and blew up her own marriage and life.
It never once occurred to me that there is a single person who knows Jen, who was worried she would steal their husband.
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.I don’t think she hates them. I think she’s mourning their loss.
She is jealous that Tens now has what she once had.
She misses being a Melissa. Of being part of "The Famjam".
Some mourning does go on with a divorce.
The difference being that most people move on, particularly when they wanted the divorce, they get on with their lives.
A process that begins when the marriage is crumbling.
That started for Jen, in June of 2019. Three years.
Now I just think she is wallowing in her own "poor me".. -
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Don was living in the basement from July-ish 2019
Tinder was Fall of 2019
Don's apartment was October 2019
He married Tens in May of 2021
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.I just realized that I differently interpreted what Jen said about friends staying away from her after divorce because they feared for their own marriages.
I assumed she meant that because she thinks she is the poster girl for “Choosing Me” and now has so much freedom and time to contemplate her navel, that others were afraid of being lured in and seduced by Jen’s “great new life choices.” You know, the way she believed all the Glennon Doyle BS and blew up her own marriage and life.
It never once occurred to me that there is a single person who knows Jen, who was worried she would steal their husband.
Nobody is choosing Jen, except Jen.
Same! I interpreted it as Jen, who *always* has to feel superior to others, would now project her ideas about marriage being an inherently flawd institution that cages people, and one can only be there true authentic self living life uncaged (or some kinda BS like that). I wouldn't want to be around someone like that either, what a downer!.