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I am an attorney in illinois. Maintenance as it is called in Illinois is fully optional. If you don't opt out so to speak it's all done now via a calculator. My argument is these people aren't the average .... Maybe she gets some maintenance but regardless ... SHE GOT HALF
Half of their investments, half of whatever retirement plan he might have had, the house etc.
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.Alimony ends if she gets remarried, right? There's no way she'll even consider getting remarried before the Don Dollars stop. She probably realizes that she needs to pop out a kid with whatever millionaire she gets matched with so he is on the hook for 18 years. She's a complete idiot when it comes to most things but she's pretty smart about securing money without ever working for it.
I don't think she gets alimony, so dating or her getting re-married wouldn't change anything except her solo lifestyle. I would imagine she gets very generous child support (which won't end until the circumstances turn 18) and was granted an ENORMOUS divorce settlement. That money is all hers to use as she wishes until it runs out--which if she got as much as I think she did, won't happen. She is likely set for a lifetime of Airbnb's and all the Crown Athletics her heart desires. Isn't that just perfect?
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.It's only a matter of time until Jen has a bad Disney cruise related experience, and what will she do then? Being a concierge-level cruiser has become her identity. What else could fill the void?
After 5 cruises in 18 months she's about due for a good case of norovirus that quarantines her and her kids in their stateroom for the duration of the cruise. -
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She hates people. Some of her most vocal viewers have been with her for years. She knows nothing about them. There are several stores I go to regularly. The guy at the post office, my favorite cashiers, other people I always see in stores, I make friendly conversation with all of them. I know which ones have kids. I know a little about their lives. It is a shame that her money allows her to have a setup like Patreon where people give her attention and if they're lucky she might say their name during a live. She is a loathsome creature. -
.She has totally given up on life. She doesn't want real friendships but is lonely. Lonely for a one-sided relationship like she had with Don. She resents seeing people posting things online about being happy. That's the only real interest she has in meeting people; showing off. I think she imagined breaking Don's heart in a million pieces by bringing her new partner to family functions. Once she saw Tens she realized she could not outdo Don and abandoned the idea of dating. Her life is an embarrassing mess. The weight gain, wandering around the country aimlessly sleeping in a car, having countless opportunities to meet people yet making no friends. The only thing she has is money and I think that's why she keeps posting online. Her money allows her to buy things other people can't afford. That's probably the only sense of satisfaction she ever has.
You're right, loners can still be lonely. People who hate people give off a negative vibe and so others don't want to be around them, but being alone for long periods of time is bad for a person's mental health - whether they are a loner or not. The type of relationship that Jen wants from a partner or friend (a one-way ass-kissing arrangement basically) doesn't suit anyone except her (and previously Don) so she will never have any luck recruiting anyone into that position. She will be alone forever because she offers nothing in return. -
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They're nice enough but the idea of going there alone makes my stomach drop. -
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Her latest Airbnb stays…
https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/1026792242588...Bsby%2BrUtE
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Jen is an excellent study in para-social relationships... she gets the social "need" she craves (Conversation focused on her, about her) with her videos and postings...easy to do with only the occasional challenge of 'negative criticism'... but most of the feedback from her patreons as kissing her ass and stroking her ego... they basically replaced Don and all she has to do for that relationship is show up live 1 hour once a month and talk more about herself. This fills any social void she feels with minimal effort but it's like eating candy all day long when what the body really needs is nutrition to make it thrive...candy all day long and the body will weaken and get sick... this is like her actual self starving on a parasocial relationship but she thinks it's friendship. We can tell she's going downhill but she thinks she is doing great. -
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nah, she's lonely.
that's why her vlogs are now 45-90 minutes long. she did more with her days when she was with don and those vlogs were rarely 20 minutes long. -
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I think Jen is very lonely but as a narcissist, she only cares about the attention she gets from having people in her life, instead of a two way relationship.
She blathers on and on, on camera, because she wants to talk to people but she only wants to talk about herself and her interests. She does not give a fig about what others have to say. This is why Don was the perfect victim (aka husband) because he was there to serve her and her ego. -
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If anyone outside the US doesn't understand the George Glass reference (imaginary boyfriend), which always makes me laugh, I present to you the gloriously hokey Brady Bunch 
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She should have gotten some real therapy.
No one should be in therapy once a week for 20 years. Get some help and some medication and have a good life. -
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Merino, she was on cruise 6 in March. She did her solo Birthday Cheese Cruise and then 4 more with the Circumstances. So now they will all be gold level when they get on the next one. -
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wait a minute. This idiot took her first Disney cruise in oct of 2022 and as of April of 2024 she has take 5 Disney Cruises? What a boring weirdo. it hasn't been 2 years and she's gone on 5 of these trips.
Honestly, she has so many issues it's beyond insane. I firmly believe she has ADHD and OCD. of course sprinkle in all the other things.
her content
for people who pay so they can see that beautiful B roll footage. LOL
Disney Cruises=5
I have no clue how many other videos she has made for them but they are all the same, her talking to the camera at her home, but calling it a vlog or cleaning out the same few spaces
youtube videos
Disney related videos =35
90210 climbs videos =3
traveled in hoard on wheels= 39
There are other videos she's put out that she flew to, like NY etc. but she only Got her hoard on wheels summer of 2022 and started to Disney later that year. That is just coming up to her 2 year anniversary of getting blue and going back to her Disney Wogs. WTF Jinny, find something else to do.
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and yet not one single video is interesting, or fun.
she is 41. Maybe evaluate your life Jinbo. You are barely a part time mom, you have no job, no direction, no actual hobbies ( I guess shopping can be counted as your hobby), no friends, no companion,
41, carries around a stuffed animal, has an empty house yet bins filed to the brim with junk, spends her hours shopping, scrolling, eating, working out, driving around in a smelly car that she named (like she was a teen), goes on Disney cruises, Disney wogs
THIS is what happens when you have ZERO responsibilities, have not dealt with mental health issues, and you spend the majority of your life online, and have an ex-husband who clearly has to support your lifestyle because no way in hell could Jinny ever afford this without the help of SMD.
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.She only wants a partner to avoid the social stigma about being single. She thought people were giving "flickering looks of consternation" to her wedding band, so she is extremely insecure about being judged. She wants friends & a partner just to have them & check the box, not to nurture or develop any real relationships. That's why it's beautiful that she is alone without a single friend.
Yeah, even Jen is not that stupid - she knows how she is perceived. Being completely alone with only people who are forced to spend time with her (kids and parents) makes her look undesirable and unpopular. Which she hates - she wants people to envy her, it's definitely one of her motivations. Which is why I'm surprised sometimes that she has continued to share so much about her life since the divorce - there's nothing to boast about any more!
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