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.As I stated in the last thread:
I think Don has custody of the kids, now.
I hope Don has custody of the kids, now.
That’s why we aren’t seeing the kids.
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.I'm still several pages back in the thread, but I wanted to add what I've always thought and may have shared over the years that I firmly believe she NEVER, EVER wanted kids. It sure appears that she put off having any heirs at all for what? TEN YEARS? I think for whatever reason, and I really don't care what her reason is, you don't have to have children if you don't want to, BUT don't make it sound as if you want them, and can't. Plenty of couples want kids desperately and can't have them. For whatever reason(s) she did have the heir and the spare. And she appears to have been miserable ever since.
In the very least, Don sure seems to love being around his kids, and appears to love them both.
It looks like she barely tolerates them and can't wait to get them to bed.
She likes to be alone. She functions well on her own. Maybe she should quit trying to be what she THINKS others think she should be?
OK rant over.
This is of course my personal opinion and not worth the time of day.
Jen sees everything with “wonder “ so when she was a kid she saw herself with balloons rambling around with her kids on the Disney grounds however, those were her dolls and not real kids. Just like her dolls, the kids are stored away to admire but not to play with unless she sees fit. There was no magic with her real children. -
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How did the kids get to Utah if they can’t travel? -
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Real housewife of Salt Lake City, Lisa Barlow clicked Like on the family pic on Jeff’s insta. -
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Don and Tens are raising all five kids. Jen has them very little now. -
.I want Jen to waltz in and be told that her basement room now belongs to Tens’ kids and she can sleep on a foldaway couch in the loft and use a tiny closet on the opposite side of the house.
I want the Family to grill HUGE meat dominant meals where every side dish has Kerry Gold Butter and real milk.
I want her to see how well all the kids get along, inside jokes between Tens and Emily and her to be literally pushed to a corner of the dining room.
I want PK & The Little One to lavish praise and love on Don & Tens and dote on all the children.
I want her and Winnie to be literal afterthoughts every single day.
Not Winnie, just Jen. Winnie is innocent in all this. -
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Jen is going to Utah in a couple weeks as confirmed on Instagram by Joe. Wondering if it’s the heart home she stays at or if she is going camping again but she will be there. -
.Team they're all uggo.
Jen's sitting her ass online and withholding. Pig Murderer posted a pic of him with some guy that looks like a grown up Cabbage Patch Doll 20 minutes ago and Bertha liked it.
Jen lives on Instagram because she wants to be the first one to like anything that Jeff posts. She is completely jealous now that Tens is in Jeff’s life and hangs out with him and she can’t unless she wiggles her way into her heart home for a visit.
Must be rough losing custody of your kids to someone who is going to be more popular than you online. -
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Are we going to get a Tens thread? Would love to discuss the business, first wedding pics, life online she has shared. She is out there and loves attention. -
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I think she cooks for them -
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Is Tens working for the Ross family and this is how her and Don met? -
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Has it been commented on that Jen has she/her in her profile? I’m confused as to why a middle aged woman would feel the need to do it. Is she overcompensating for how butch she comes across or to let others know she needs the real d so they will hit her up? It’s so strange -
.All of her self-care stuff and how much she talks about being gentle with herself and leaning into something might be coming from her therapist. If she is being treated for depression, it's probably her therapist who is telling her to make sure she takes care of herself, is gentle with herself when she feels low, etc. And all of that is good and correct. But I feel like Jen is not doing it constructively. Killing herself on Peloton bike is not the same as taking care of your body and mind. Binging on ice cream is not the same as being gentle with yourself. I feel like there might be good intentions of a therapist and a few sayings/ideas that Jen picked up from a therapist, but it's not helping her because it's not being done right.
And (perhaps, in contrast to a popular belief here) I do not think she NEEDS to get a job or volunteer. She doesn't have to. She has a life of privilege and she needs to own it and stop apologizing for it. You can embrace and enjoy your privilege without shoving it into people's faces in an arrogant way.
But I think to help her feel better and to pull herself out of depression (and I do think she is depressed), she needs to put an effort into an activity that truly connects with what she loves. Something that gives meaning to her life. For example, she seems to love animals and her dog. How about fostering cats/dogs? It would give her a pleasurable interaction with animals and an emotional reward for saving a pet.
She probably doesn't feel like doing any of the things she used to enjoy before if she is depressed. And unfortunately, to feel better, she has to kind of force herself to start doing these things anyway. She bought that expensive camera equipment. Even if she doesn't feel like learning it, she needs to. It'll be good for her in the long run.
I understand that children might not be her jam. But she has them. And it's not their fault. So, when they are with her, she needs to learn to find something about them that she enjoys. Find some activities to do with them that would be somewhat enjoyable for her as well. It'll make her emotional state a lot better than it is now.
Overall, I feel sympathy for Jen. Even if everything that happened was her "fault." I still feel sad for her because I think she is deeply unhappy.
Nah, she pretends to be an empath but all she does is watch a youtuber and then takes on their persona and she has stealing confused with feeling others pain. I blame Don.
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