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| QUOTE (narcissistic1% @ 6/8/2021, 03:47 AM) QUOTE (KayTee @ 6/8/2021, 01:27 AM) She isn’t getting married at least until Don’s alimony obligation is 100% fulfilled. Not jen friending but I would not get married again either if it meant losing that alimony.
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| Whew! We've had house renos, out of town guests, kid stuff and I've been trudging along trying to keep up!
I think the new last name is quite interesting. I also think it is a paper marriage for the house purchase and that there is a bigger celebration coming.
I haven't found the first wedding pics.
My husband proposed the day that my divorce was final (July) and we had been dating since the end of March. My divorce was drawn out because I was pregnant and my lawyer advised me to wait until the baby was born so that we could do custody and child support in one swoop.
We married the next April. We just celebrated our 17th anniversary. We have 5 total kids now. Sometimes you just know. My husband says he knew on our first date. We had known each other but not well and we had mutual friends. It took him longer to convince me.
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| QUOTE (DivorcewithWonder @ 5/23/2021, 02:51 AM) QUOTE (SeeminglySweetLikeJen @ 5/23/2021, 02:40 AM) I think it was in her Q&A, it’s even in the title “changing name” but I believe she said that because of the kids, it’s just easier to stay “Ross” you know, for school, doctors appts, etc. However, didn’t she actually say if either of them remarried, she’d consider changing it? My husband's ex-wife has been married and divorced two times since she was married to my husband, but she has always kept my husband's last name. It drives me CRAZY! I am always like, "B*tch, that's my name, not yours!" I am sure Tens will be thinking the same if Jen refuses to drop the name for the rest of her existence.
Annoying. My ex husband's ex wife (still with me? LOL) had another baby and named him with my ex husband's last name while we were dating.
It was bizarre.
Her parents also had her obituary run in her newest married name, her maiden name and my ex-husband's surname. BIZARRE-O!
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| QUOTE (SeeminglySweetLikeJen @ 5/23/2021, 02:33 AM) QUOTE (ThumbCringeLikeJen @ 23/5/2021, 01:53) What I noticed was Tens is definitely lacking in the bust area.. quite flat than I assumed Don’s type (based on their Q&A about her feminine curve). Bertha has a man shoulder but comes with big natural hooters. But she’s got legs for days and seems to be quite a bit taller than Jen. Maybe Don wanted someone who could see eye to eye with him and not complain/brag about how teeny tiny she was next to him?
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| QUOTE (Trixie27 @ 5/23/2021, 02:29 AM) QUOTE (zizizouzou @ 23/5/2021, 02:26) Yes, ages ago. She is keeping it. She’ll never give up the Ross name.
I can see her hyphenating it if she ever finds a second husband.
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| QUOTE (fiercelyprivate @ 5/23/2021, 01:39 AM) To quote Jen her own words that she said to Don years ago "be careful what you wish for". All the me time she destroyed her life for but no peace of mind to go with it.
You know those married couples that swear by living in separate residences? That's Jen's ideal situation. And one that Don would have never gone for.
But she sure tried with Utah!
But post mommy hood she wouldn't have been happy because she would have been a "solo mama" still. |
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| QUOTE (VictimLikeJen @ 5/23/2021, 01:24 AM) QUOTE (WhyAmIHere @ 23/5/2021, 00:44) LOL... so like hayride and train from pre divorce days we now have #AtTheTable ?  ALSO... still no rage ride from Jen today? I pretty sure she devoured that entire Phish Food ice cream last night and was expecting a ride and a run... Her stating she needed to getaway when her kids are at their Dad's makes so much more sense now. We kinda laughed at that as we've always seen her happiest when she was alone, and took it as a big lie. But, imagine how she must feel on his weekends, her alone in the big grey house while the kids are having fun with the new mixed fam.... I'd probably want to get my mind off it too. Yeah, it all makes a lot more sense now. I thought, if she likes being alone, why is it that when the kids are with Don, she seems even more sad? You'd think she'd be happier right? More "me" time. But now it's all coming together.
YES! She started all of this for more me time and now the me time is what is twisting that "knife in her heart." She complained that they were away from her at first, but seemed to thoroughly enjoy her me time. And now that this relationship has come together, she knows that her "me time" is not just her kids thoroughly enjoying their Daddy time, but now future step siblings and another woman in their life...
Now the "me time" isn't so fun anymore. Tinsleigh is living what she had and could have had. My friend is a second wife of a well off man. And his ex wife has literally said, "She is living the life that I had to sacrifice for!"
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| QUOTE (husbandontherun @ 5/22/2021, 11:50 PM) Wasn’t there a time when she needed a time out but said everyone in her family was ok? Could that have been around the time of the engagement?
I'm curious if the engagement lines up with the "devastating news" (!!!) that wasn't death or illness of any relatives or Winnie.
QUOTE (KerryGold @ 5/23/2021, 12:05 AM) QUOTE (Backupbunsy @ 5/22/2021, 08:41 AM) I WONDER if she is going to merge the myhousewifelife with the new brand to keep making some money or to help her analytics. Idk if she has to go about it this way or not.  Ya know, I just can't put my finger on this, but I wonder if she is afraid that the new Mrs. might copy some of her ideas, you know, try to achieve the pretty neat living that the 1st Mrs had? Just a random thought...
It would be interesting if Jennifer thinks that Tensleigh would SWF her like she does others. Because she does this to others it could be something she thinks about. Like how cheaters often accuse their partners of cheating. Or scam artists are quick to accuse others of scamming.
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| I'm just thrilled that Tinsleigh appears to brush her children's hair and put bows in for the girls.
BASIC LIFE THINGS, JENNIFER! |
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| Whoooooo... what a read!
So, Tens has HAIR! And he very much has a type.. though this time he went with the "no frumpy" option and "has thick hair" option. She also has a JOB! And is holding it down as a single WORKING (really working, Jen!) mom of three!
I think that the Pelaton BS was Jen trying to SWF Tensleigh. She tried hard in Utah on the RV trip and Don told her with his parents and the kids there so that someone could safely watch the kiddos and do damage control with Jen. Suze was stuck with the task. She reminded Jen she would "be her forever MIL" and spoke to her in her preschool teacher voice.
Jen has never shown her trip back because instead of having her life put back together, she was informed that Tens was joining Don at the Utah house... maybe he thought he could introduce them there? In a "neutral-ish zone?"
I need to go back through Jen's postings and see what shitquotes she was posting around the proposal. Weren't we wondering if she really baked paska bread this year or not? Maybe that was withholding from the forever MIL. That is her MO--- withhold withhold withhold and she literally starved Don of attention and affection. It's what she does! She is withholding fun and experiences from her own children for cryin' out loud!
I think there will be a D/T baby. Many people say that they are done and then have another marriage and have more. I was one of them. I swore I was done after 1 and even begged my OB to tie my tubes. Now I have 5. (3 more births and an adoption) Jen was the one driving the 2 and done train in their marriage-- not Don.
I'm still firmly in the Jen got dumped train. She massively and egregiously overplayed her hand. And Don is coming out on top.
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| Thanks bakers! You are "da real MVPs!"
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| QUOTE (husbandontherun @ 5/18/2021, 01:53 AM) But no order would stop her from posting walks with Winnie or peloton stats. 🤷♀️
THIS! (in Jen language)
I'm still on the post-divorce-proceedings-didn't-go-her-way hayride. |
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| I see a lot of mention of the real D.
She gets the Real D that matters (to her) every month.... Direct Deposit. |
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