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Woohoo!!!!!
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We’re on our sixth thread in 2 weeks. So much for past complaints that Jen is boring . -
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Fab title, Bangle! . -
.We’re on our sixth thread in 2 weeks. So much for past complaints that Jen is boring
Jen IS boring
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Bangle Bitch . -
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Bangle Biotch
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Great title!
I don’t loathe her but I trust her as far as I could throw her not-size-2-or-4 self. I think she’s extremely manipulative, as most narcissists are.. -
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Her lack of self-awareness and chronic selfishness and navel gazing is a wonder to me. She has been in therapy, weekly, for ten years, yet I just don’t see it, except for the constant “be gentle with myself” crap.
She creates her own drama and rewrites history. It’s fascinating. Anyone want Jen in a nutshell, watch the “feeling conflicted” or the “parking lot confession” vlogs. Oh and the Tosh video is mandatory.
I think most of us want the best for Jen. She is her own worst enemy.. -
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I don't loathe Jen, she is just a really low hanging selfish First World fruit. . -
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Am I the only one on the Loathe-Jen train?
I've taken multiple breaks from Jen where I just need to unsub from everything. She's my Bitch Eating Crackers.. -
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No loathing from me, but here’s why my views of her have changed.
When I first started watching her, I thought she gardened, sewed, crafted, played piano and guitar, baked and cooked, kept up her lovely home, was generous, light-hearted and open minded and had fun and interesting new ways to organize.
As time went by, I realized none of these things are truths.
Then LipstickJungle pointed me to some videos of Jen with Winnie in which she treated Don like shit and made it quite clear that the pecking order was Jen...Winnie....More Jen...and lastly and least importantly Don. Ugly, really. I’d never seen those and it certainly did change my impression of Jen, gave me a very clear understanding of how very self-centered and conniving she is.
I still enjoy watching her, but it is most definitively a different sort of enjoyment. At some point, many years ago, I began to think of her as a stoner. Why? Because...
(I’ll put it in a spoiler because I’m sure most of you are sick of my theory)SPOILER (click to view)StonerLikeJen
For those that don’t know my theory:
Jen reminds me of a stoner. A lot.
-Highly impressed by small feats
-Laughing outrageously at jokes only she understands
-So easily distracted
-Weird food combinations
-Forgetting words and train of thought
-Big plans that never see the light of day
-Raving about such small accomplishments
-Enthralled and enchanted by meaningless things
-Constantly justifying
-Absolutely no change in years
Yes, I realize that Jen is not a stoner. But all her behaviors are conspicuously stoner-like. (Hell, she even once made a mug that said, “The Dude Abides.”) And this is how I’ve come to watch Jen and enjoy even her ultimate stupidity.
Going thru life as a stoner without even indulging in the herb must be a real trip.
Now, I watch from this perspective and it just cracks me up, every time. She never fails to give me evidence of this.
And I have come to realize that Jen has created a persona which, frankly, is quite successful. There is only one Jen. No one else even comes close.
But what she shows us is not her true self, as she claims. What we see is an extremely manipulative woman who focuses on her pretend self.
The false self rests on the surface, as the self presented to the world. It stands in contrast to the true self, which resides behind the facade or image. This true self is the feeling self, but it is a self that must be hidden and denied.
I have an awful lot of sympathy/empathy toward her because of her 9/11 experience and I think this did affect her in deep ways. Yet, I also think she lacks empathy of any sort.
Bottom line is that Jen is an anomaly. I had hoped to see her grow (she was quite young when she started YouTube) and become what she was pretending to be. Instead, she became expert at presenting her false self.
And it’s really pretty fascinating to watch. She’s become a regular character in my life, and like a long-standing favorite TV show, I hope she never gets cancelled.
And she led me here, to a group of people I truly enjoy reading.
We’ve come a mighty long way together and we have Jen to thank for that.
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Don’t loathe. Watch for laughs. And camaraderie with The Bakery.. -
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Jen’s threads are on fire😂😂😂😂
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I don’t loathe jen either. She’s an anomaly to me. I’m just here to understand the way her head works lol. Haven’t gotten anywhere with it. .