The Mills Family Pt 13: Tommy's shirking while Daddy Asher is working.

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    Credit to Jumpingjello and passerby for the title.
     
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    I love the title but can't take any credit!

    Well done, Jumpingjello!
     
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    ME on previous post: "Remember too when he had the UTI the KIDS were bringing him his antibiotics and pain meds???"


    Oh ok it was during his teeth fiasco, I remember now the doctor called and spoke with ASHER! Imagine lying in bed and letting your children answer the phone to speak to the doctor? He is such an attention seeker it's sickening. You would think he would NOT want his children worrying. It was a tooth extraction, it wasn't the end of the world. I cannot even fathom a parent behaving like he does.

    As for Chad and his wife, You are right. Who has guests over and sits there on you tube and puts them on as well? Chad's wife is very sweet and kind so she probably just went along with it becasue they were the guests. I don't think Chad is as bad as Tom, he seems kind too, but easily pushed around. That's the kind of friends Tom enjoys, people he can push around and run his loud mouth to. Chad seems to be influenced by Tom, kind of like a good kid being bad when he's around certain friends. He's another person who tries to please Tom and let him be right all the time. It's amazing how Tom finds so much narcissistic supply around him.

    April was not going to be his puppet and that is why Tom could not handle her. She didn't agree with everything he said or did. She was bringing new ideas to the kids. Tom couldn't have that.
     
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    Mamacare I am not really convinced he actually had a real girlfriend after he kicked April to the curb.

    I think some woman on the dating site he was signed up for liked his profile or messaged him and he was so desperate to rid himself of April that he cut her loose and went all in messaging the woman.

    She probably got turned off after reading his lunacy and just left him hanging. (Least I hope that's what happened. Lol)

    He just keeps the lie going cause he seems to have a hard on for thinking he's fooling people. His mind is like that of a 12 year old prankster.

    I wouldn't be surprised if he's up surfing porn half the night. He's gross.

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    QUOTE (passerby @ 6/9/2021, 05:51 PM) 
    I love the title but can't take any credit!

    Well done, Jumpingjello!

    You spiced it up! Teamwork makes a dreamwork, or in Tom's case, no teamwork makes nightmares reality.
     
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    I was confused this should be part 12 not at 13 YET hahaha
     
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    QUOTE (MountainHiker11 @ 6/9/2021, 06:46 PM) 
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    ME on previous post: "Remember too when he had the UTI the KIDS were bringing him his antibiotics and pain meds???"


    Oh ok it was during his teeth fiasco, I remember now the doctor called and spoke with ASHER! Imagine lying in bed and letting your children answer the phone to speak to the doctor? He is such an attention seeker it's sickening. You would think he would NOT want his children worrying. It was a tooth extraction, it wasn't the end of the world. I cannot even fathom a parent behaving like he does.

    As for Chad and his wife, You are right. Who has guests over and sits there on you tube and puts them on as well? Chad's wife is very sweet and kind so she probably just went along with it becasue they were the guests. I don't think Chad is as bad as Tom, he seems kind too, but easily pushed around. That's the kind of friends Tom enjoys, people he can push around and run his loud mouth to. Chad seems to be influenced by Tom, kind of like a good kid being bad when he's around certain friends. He's another person who tries to please Tom and let him be right all the time. It's amazing how Tom finds so much narcissistic supply around him.

    April was not going to be his puppet and that is why Tom could not handle her. She didn't agree with everything he said or did. She was bringing new ideas to the kids. Tom couldn't have that.

    I'm sure the kids were doing the same things when he had the UTI too. And he also had April there to give him extra extra attention. I remember when they were in the hotel by the Ark and Tommo made an entire video about the damn UTI and going to the emergency room. Solly was in that video and he looked so sad. Tommo said they were all scared. Sure they were. Their Mom went to the hospital and she never went back home again. Oh he loved all that attention. He talked SO much about the PAAAAAAINNNNN!!! OHHHH THE PAAAAAINNNN! He's got the maturity of a toddler. Remember the Dots pretzels? when he had the UTI. He figured he needed extra salt. He just needed water. It was SO ridiculous. April was fawning all over him and he loved it.

    The kids were there alone with him when he had the wisdom tooth. He did that live stream where he was all drugged up. When I heard him say the kids were setting timers and bringing him pain meds and water I just about threw up. He is exactly like a toddler. His Mom was over there too checking in on him. He is a master manipulator and attention seeker.

    Chad worshipped him. Folks like Chad are the kinds of folks Tommo chooses as "friends". Folks who will tell him how amazing he is and how smart he is. Tommo could not deal with anybody who stood up to him and refused to be shouted down by him. He will always have folks like Chad in his life, who will agree with him and praise him and tell him how super amazing he is. Tommo has to be a superior to everybody else.

    When he said he went to Papa Gary's house with the kids on Christmas Eve Eve and he sat in a corner by himself and approved facebook comments all and watched the kids play. He said he can't just visit with folks. Unless its with somebody who he can spar with intellectually and debate with. So I guess Papa Gary doesn't have any friends or family on Tommo's intellectual level? Truth is that Tommo is a self professed intellectual. He's about as intellectual as the fish in the pond (If they're still alive). He is loud and arrogant. He shouts everybody else down until he is the only one left speaking and then he thinks he's won the "debate".

    April liked to travel and to take vacations and to go outside the house during the day and meet folks. She had opinions and she was confident. So were her kids. They were going out for coffee and Eden was starting to try coffee and to want to wear different clothes and cut and style her hair. Tommo could never have accepted that. His daughter getting ideas about clothes and hair styles? Nope!

    Tommo wanted somebody who was gonna stay home all day and cook, clean, polish, babysit, homeschool his kids, and take care of him and love on him. He is so scared of spending money so he would never want anybody who likes to take a vacation or buy nice clothes or go the salon. He wants a clone of Andrea. He isn't prepared to move home. He isn't prepared to spend any money fixing up their home or adding on to it. The new girlfriend better get set to move in there and to be a clone of Andrea because if she isn't, it will never work.

    I wonder if he met her? or if its an online thing?
     
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    Maybe our most favourite subject has pulled his head in? It has really quietened here lately.
    Maybe i am craving a bit of action, but not at the expense of his children. The whining will never stop, next we will all hear about it being soooo hot! All he ever does is fake it, we cam see right through his pretence.

    Can't stop watching though.The videos are oh so boring. He won't lay low for long, just not what an over inflated narcissist will do.Always has to remain the centre of attention.

    Chad in those lives appeared to bow down to the scumbag, almost worshiping Tommo, totally giving him his narcissistic supply. Pathetic to watch, and Tommo so so satisfied. Yuk!!
     
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    Those poor kids finally got outside of their own state to visit the Ark and the whole thing was about Tom. He WAY over dramatized it too. Saying he was dizzy and almost passed out. Yeah, when you are dehydrated you can feel dizzy. Why talk about it in front of the kids. People get UTI's every day. Then he doesn't take the antibiotics correctly and ends up having it come back again. Honestly I'm not sure I even believe him. Everything with him is a catastrophe.

    I guess when you are a smart ass and drive the whole way, what was it 24 hours without stopping? He sat in his crusty jeans driving for 24 hours and bacteria had a chance to grow in his crotch area and probably didn't drink much because he knows it all. The whole trip was SO unplanned and chaotic.

    The kids couldn't enjoy it becasue "Daddy" got sick and "Daddy" really plays it up. It all centers around him. Always.
     
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    I sincerely wish the teenage boys could experience some regular activities. Expand their world outside the 4 walls of the Mills Mansion. If anyone suggests something during a live, Tom promptly relies they could if they wanted to, but they won’t want to.

    Did he want to go out with friends as a teen? Of course he did, as did Andrea. Give those kids some freedom & let them grow. They deserve it.
     
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    I always watch for the older four boys to smile. I love when they seem happy.
     
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    I do think Tom is talking to someone online but I don’t think he’s met her yet. Just my hunch. Maybe they have met. If there wasn’t a girlfriend he would be making more lives moaning about how horrible his life is.
     
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