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I doubt he has been on his bike for a long time....1) he would have bragged about it and told us 2) I can't imagine because of the way he grunts and groans and huffs and puffs now 3) he would get too far from home and have to call Asher to come and pick him up 4) when would he even have the time 5) have you noticed how big his gut is now?
Nope im sure its been since last time he has vlogged it, since hes bn on his $1000+ bike!MR.Idiot said that Thomas was purchasing furniture etc with his savings and said he knows this because he can see Thomas' account because it's linked to his and that he was kind of worried because it's getting low ( hint hint) we all know why he dropped that little tid bit of info, he wants donations rolling in..🤦💰🤦
I do hope Thomas heard or someone told him that TomAss was talking about his savings account to everyone! I would be very upset if i were Thomas...that is NO ONE's business not even TomAss's!!. -
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If I were Thomas I would immediately change my bank account so Tom cannot have any access to it or broadcast any info.
For goodness sake Tom won’t let any of the kids mention GF name but he has the right to discuss Thomas finances. Double standard much?. -
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You know I was kidding, right??? Everything you wrote is absolutely right. And also, you're right....he can't figure out the camera/audio/hot spot/wifi. There's always something that isn't working right.
I cant believe how Tommo talked about how Thomas tries to store his own food in the freezer. Tommo commented on that quite a few times in several videos...... Thomas's frozen pizzas in the freezer in the pantry. His chocolate milk in the refrigerator upstairs....and Thursday, his ice cream that fell out of the freezer upstairs. Well Tommo........poor Thomas doesn't have his very own personal shelf in a refrigerator like YOU do....the one with your name on. Tommy's shelf for Tommy's special food.
Poor Thomas was buying most of his own food.......going to subway after work everyday as Tommo shared quite a while ago. Then Tommo bought him a personal pizza oven so Thomas can heat a frozen pizza when she is playing on the computer. WHERE does he expect poor Thomas to keep the frozen pizzas? In his bed? Poor kid had to keep them in a freezer.
IF Thomas ever doubts his decision to move out.....I hope he remembers all those things and realizes it was time to break free and have his own life and his own space. Thomas works 40+ hours every week....how many hours does Tommo work???
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Dream Big yes, I know you were kidding!
Thomas doesn't own enough stuff where TomAss even has to make a big deal to address anything like that. 4 tires could have fit in the corner of that so called bike shed. I'm sure that's a mess and a half. There is probably crap ThomAss just threw in there to get it out of the way.
I was shocked when he said they have had to throw away left over pizza because of too much cheese on it. The vlog before Thursday. Might have been Wednesday live dinner when he was showing the new strawberry milk spout. I saw a bunch of baggies on the bottom shelf with pizza. So a week old it needed to go in the trash. I guess no room in either freezer for it..there is no since in that!
Remember when he 1st started doing the grocery list or heck it could have been just a couple months ago but he was downstairs in the pantry and there was a random box of pop tarts way high up on a shelf and he was flipping out because they had been there while. I can't remember if Thomas said they were his or a kid said they were Thomas's but TomAss said they have been there long enough and threw them right into the trashcan!!!!! It was time for Thomas to fly the coop!
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If I were Thomas I would immediately change my bank account so Tom cannot have any access to it or broadcast any info.
For goodness sake Tom won’t let any of the kids mention GF name but he has the right to discuss Thomas finances. Double standard much?
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Tom, stopped cycling because he was trying to impress women who were active, but eventually he realized he was not worthy of them, although in his mind they were too controlling by encouraging him to improve his overall health. Instead of avoiding the children by going for a bike ride he sits in his office playing video games and watching porn.
Being healthy and successful, takes too much energy for Tom. Tom, makes excuses for poverty, not providing for his family and not living a healthy lifestyle. If Tom spent as much energy on excuses for being poor, fat and eating fast-food, on improving his life he would be doing better than the millionaire next door.. -
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sweetbeyond I truly believe the reason Thomas is moving out is not connected to lack of storage space for tires or pizzas or anything else. I always had a strong feeling that Thomas was VERY disapproving of his father's behavior with accepting endless gifts and hinting for gift cards and checks in the mail too. I believe there is a LOT of Andrea in Thomas and yeah, he looks like Tommo's biological father.....but I think his heart and personality are his Moms. The gifts he got all his siblings last Christmas were EXACTLY what Andrea would've got for them if she could've had enough money to buy them. And Thomas didn't make a big deal about it either.....he didn't give a BIG description of each gift to each kid, he just enjoyed watching them open their gifts. That was enough for Thomas. He put so much thought and care into everything he bought for them.
I think Thomas was done with Tommo's BS a LONG time ago. Then we saw how he deliberately avoided Tommo in the store Thursdays whenever he could and how he avoided the camera whenever he could too. Maybe Caeden gave Thomas advice about how to move out and what he needed to do. I sure hope so. Having a best friend to talk to when you are thinking about making big life changes is so important.
I think the biggest message Thomas gave to his father is how he arranged everything without asking him or telling him. He took control and did what he wanted to do. I hope he feels empowered and I hope he feels very proud of his courage and strength of character. Because for a kid who was so sheltered and shielded from the real world for most of his life.....he did a great job.
I also have a VERY strong feeling that Tommo will be like a real life guardian angel for his brothers and sisters. He will always watch out for them and help them. And......if any of them were unhappy if Tommo moved a new wife and her kids in there....Thomas would help them.
Maybe now Tommo realizes his son did all that and chose to NOT move around the corner from home, or down the block......maybe he will be more aware that his kids can be free thinkers and can make their own decisions and now they have a big brother to help them if they need advice. So maybe Tommo will be a better person after Thomas's shock decision.
It was great to see Thomas at the end of the monthly shopping video where he was wearing shorts and a nice t shirt like a regular 20 years old young man. He was not wearing the "uniform". I hope he is finding his own style. He is a handsome young man and I pray one day he meets a wonderful lady and they have a great life together. I bet Thomas will always be very insistent on having privacy and Tommo wont be able to run his mouth about what he is doing and how his life is. Thomas deserves that. He's been on camera and in videos for most of his life. He deserves his privacy now.
You did great Thomas. You were not born into this world to rescue your father. You are you. Your life is your life. You absolutely should not have to spend the best years of your life rescuing your father.. -
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I haven't caught up to everyone's posts yet, but did Tom really say Thomas' account was linked to his and he was worried it was getting low?
First off, No Tom it's not YOUR account it's the GO FUND ME account that people gave money for the kids. It's supposed to be used for the kids and If Thomas needs things to start off his apartment then YOU should not be limiting him. It's not coming out of your pocket AT ALL!
Maybe YOU should not have run through it like it was a never ending money tree meant just for your pleasure and happiness! It was never meant to be a forever cash flow for you.
Maybe you should get your lazy ass to a full time job and provide for your kids medical and physical needs.
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It wouldn't take much money to get his life in order either. That's the sad part. He had plenty from the GFM. He could've fixed the kitchen floors instead of buying himself a bike. The girls could have a new bedroom instead of a talking microwave. He could save hundreds a month by revamping what they buy for food. With those savings, he could fix the fence and paint it. Where there is a will, there is a way.
Remember when he asked which kid would want Thomas' bed? His bed is just like the others. Why would they be so excited to get his bed? That's another thing - Tom clearly can't see that those beds were not made for grown men. They're only appropriate for Solly.. -
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Oh I didn't even notice that Thomas had normal clothes on in that shopping video. Clue #2 that he's breaking away from Tom's cult mentality. How hard would it have been to let the boys pick out comfortable clothing like that to enjoy all summer. You could literally tell the boys in Walmart, "Go grab five shirts and five shorts and meet me at the hot dogs". Forget the stupid clothing colors, just let them get what is there and what they like. Someone might have to help Solly. I bet Justus wishes he was old enough to escape. He's the one that has seem most bothered and angry at Tom. It was sad to see him go from a good natured kid to an angry one, but that sometimes happens in adolescence anyway. However, he had plenty to be angry about. . -
.I also have a VERY strong feeling that Tommo will be like a real life guardian angel for his brothers and sisters. He will always watch out for them and help them. And......if any of them were unhappy if Tommo moved a new wife and her kids in there....Thomas would help them.
You did great Thomas. You were not born into this world to rescue your father. You are you. Your life is your life. You absolutely should not have to spend the best years of your life rescuing your father.
I said the same, that Thomas will be there for his siblings, BUT I just hope he doesn't take everything on his shoulders because of the lack of responsibility of his Father. I'm sure they will look to him for advice and comfort when needed. I just worry WHO is that for Thomas? I KNOW Andrea's family will be there for him and Kitty, but in reality he has no parents. Andrea is gone and Tom is no parent he can really depend on, especially if he remarries. Andrea and her family will be forgotten and left in the dust.
This kid has shown SO MUCH strength and courage in the middle of so much ridiculous chaos brought on by his irresponsible, self indulgent, man child of a so called parent.
I too think he has resentment towards Tom for the way he talked about Andrea, the way he treated her death, which was despicable, and the way he was panting after a new woman rather than focusing on his children's needs. That's their MOTHER!
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MountainHiker11 Is it just me or does Rachel Day seem like maybe her parents were distant cousins? . -
.Oh I didn't even notice that Thomas had normal clothes on in that shopping video. Clue #2 that he's breaking away from Tom's cult mentality. How hard would it have been to let the boys pick out comfortable clothing like that to enjoy all summer. You could literally tell the boys in Walmart, "Go grab five shirts and five shorts and meet me at the hot dogs". Forget the stupid clothing colors, just let them get what is there and what they like. Someone might have to help Solly. I bet Justus wishes he was old enough to escape. He's the one that has seem most bothered and angry at Tom. It was sad to see him go from a good natured kid to an angry one, but that sometimes happens in adolescence anyway. However, he had plenty to be angry about.
same!! I was shocked to see that he had some type of sandals on!! GO Thomas!!! I hope you are reading this and I hope you realize that most of us do care about your wellbeing and your siblings wellbeing. I am sure that Thomas will be successful, PS: Thomas- its ok to set some boundary and its ok to still love your family but in different way.. -
.I also have a VERY strong feeling that Tommo will be like a real life guardian angel for his brothers and sisters. He will always watch out for them and help them. And......if any of them were unhappy if Tommo moved a new wife and her kids in there....Thomas would help them.
You did great Thomas. You were not born into this world to rescue your father. You are you. Your life is your life. You absolutely should not have to spend the best years of your life rescuing your father.
I said the same, that Thomas will be there for his siblings, BUT I just hope he doesn't take everything on his shoulders because of the lack of responsibility of his Father. I'm sure they will look to him for advice and comfort when needed. I just worry WHO is that for Thomas? I KNOW Andrea's family will be there for him and Kitty, but in reality he has no parents. Andrea is gone and Tom is no parent he can really depend on, especially if he remarries. Andrea and her family will be forgotten and left in the dust.
This kid has shown SO MUCH strength and courage in the middle of so much ridiculous chaos brought on by his irresponsible, self indulgent, man child of a so called parent.
I too think he has resentment towards Tom for the way he talked about Andrea, the way he treated her death, which was despicable, and the way he was panting after a new woman rather than focusing on his children's needs. That's their MOTHER!
Thomas is SENSITIVE, something Tom LACKS.
Its scary.....poor Thomas has been through so much and like you said, he has nobody now really. I sense tension between him and Tommo even more now that Thomas did everything about moving out without telling Tommo. But.....Thomas didn't really have a father either since Andrea passed. He was so close to her. After she passed he witnessed his father crying and whining and attention seeking live on his Moms channel to a bunch of women he never met and will never meet....oversharing about the kids and the family.....and actively looking for women to "message me on FB" as he gazed with that creepy smile at the camera. Thomas moderated all those live streams for his father and saw how desperate he was to remarry right away.
It was Thomas who was sitting beside Tommo during a live package opening weeks after Andrea passed where Tommo was gazing all excited into the camera at somebody in chat. He was also messaging constantly with somebody throughout the entire live stream. I will never NEVER forget the look on Thomas's face. He watched his father's phone screen light up over and over....and he watched his father grab it and message with whichever woman was on there. That was the video where somebody sent a key chain with andreas picture inside....and it lit up. The little girls loved it. Hannah was holding it at one point in the video saying "momma, momma" over and over......Tommo didn't even notice as he was messaging with a "girl". Thomas noticed and I bet his heart was breaking. I guess Tommo got a lot of heat about that video because he took it off of the channel.
I hope Kitty will be there for Thomas. And I hope Andreas sisters will also. Maybe Papa Doug will also be there for him. And Caedens Mom and Dad also. Caeden looked like he was a good guy and he and thomas are so close. I hope he will also be very supportive for Thomas.
Thomas's hasn't really had a parent since Andrea passed. Tommo was so emotionally disconnected from the kids and too distracted with his search for the next Mrs Mills. I hope the folks where Thomas works are good to him and that he made friends there. He is a generous and kind kid and good things will come to him. I trust and believe Kitty and Doug and Andreas sisters will be there to support him.. -
.MountainHiker11 Is it just me or does Rachel Day seem like maybe her parents were distant cousins?
UMM where is the title contain Rachel Day?? NO, Its about Mills kids and their self-centered father. RD is not involved in day to day life. She is just a weirdo fan.. -
.MountainHiker11 Is it just me or does Rachel Day seem like maybe her parents were distant cousins?
UMM where is the title contain Rachel Day?? NO, Its about Mills kids and their self-centered father. RD is not involved in day to day life. She is just a weirdo fan.
I think you misunderstood what she meant. She was making a joke by saying Rachel Day's parents must be distant cousins, in other words that is why she is so strange.
At least that is how I interpreted it .I certainly could be wrong.MountainHiker11 Is it just me or does Rachel Day seem like maybe her parents were distant cousins?
LOL, yes she is very strange. I think she is just very bored..
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