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Just watched Sollys party....wonder what he edited off?
SOLLY Didnt have holes in his jeans....TomAss didn't cry singing Happy Birthday like he usually does.
I didn't see what Kitty got Solly.
TomAss gets to go Bike shopping again for Solly! Hope Solly rides his bike more then EDEN has/did!
Why do i not believe he made that cake??
How sad did Eden look the whole time sitting next to Solly??? So sad!
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April had a VERY lucky escape! So did her two kids. Tommo was happy for her to live in a tin can trailer down the block during a wyoming winter....with her two kids. Oh. My. Gosh! Tommo was gonna help her put heat tape around the water pipe into the trailer.......and said she could use his washing machine and dryer at the house.
Good for her for moving on. I hope April and her husband and the kids have a wonderful new life together.
Mr Tommo is still making a buck from the videos she was in on the channel......the ones he refused to take down. Shows exactly what his priorities are.......$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
Even though he says he's got a new GF.......he is still ok to make money off of the videos his ex girlfriend and her kids.....who are BOTH MINORS.....were in.
April moved on to a happy new life......Mr Tommo is still sitting home complaining and bragging about his invisible GF.....who refuses to be seen on the channel...for more than a year..... The "GF" who goes in his chat using fake names and just says "heyyyy".. -
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Solomon in his Birthday video is holding most of his Birthday cards about 4 inches from his eyes in order to be able to read them. I imagine that the longer he goes without corrective lenses, the worse it will get. Maybe this is one reason he takes so long at the grocery store is because he has a hard time reading the labels. How can Daddy Mills or any of Solly’s extended family not see this and not speak up??? The local school district or health department probably does vision screenings for free. Even Andrea had an eye chart and would do vision checks.
In a way it’s more than child neglect, it’s child endangerment. By not seeing well, Solomon could get seriously injured and of course, Daddy wouldn’t look up ,he’d just say, “Oh you’re okay” like he always does.
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Solomon's birthday...
Judah - I thought he might get Solly a real present since he has a job. Nope. Just candy and junk.
Life is too short to watch Solly struggling to get wrapping paper off. How many minutes did it take to show that Solly got a sword, which you could tell from the shape anyway. Tom, learn to edit.
I guess breakfast on Solly's birthday was too much trouble but don't worry, the library gave them cereal bars.
I know story hour is the only time the kids get to go out and socialize in a week, but I really think it's meant for preschoolers. Our story hour is held on a weekday while the kids are in school. It's for toddlers and preschoolers. Solly and Sophia should've outgrown that by now. In the summer, we had stuff for older kids too at different times. It's like Tom just wants to keep them toddlers forever.
The kids were so excited to get the mail. They immediately looked for a key, which they would use to collect a package. There was no key. Just two advertisements. Tom said, "Well it isn't like it used to be" in a dismal tone, meaning he's not getting flourished with presents. You mean the presents you hate and never use, Tom? The presents you never thank people for? The presents you make fun of or sell/donate? Gee, I wonder why it isn't what it used to be. Why did he even include that clip? He apparently wants presents.. needs some items to sell probably. Or just let boxes sit unopened which had seasonal items the kids could use.
Solly speaks in baby talk. He would do so much better to be around some peers. He's TEN now. Tom, find him some boys his age to hang out with!
I've never been to a party where people get so much soda and junk food for presents. Have you? I typically don't see that.
Well, I had to hit the skip forward button through most of it because it was so boring. I mean, at least they did something but it's much more anti-climatic than what Tom does for his favorites.
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I wonder what was edited from that birthday video.
The next question is how long will it take for Solly to get his bicycle? Tom just doesn’t have time dontcha know for such things cause he’s so tired and busy.. -
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He posted on the community Tab
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Bunch of videos incoming! I took the entire day to edit videos! Solomon's Birthday will release Sunday at 10, Monthly Shopping Monday at 10, and Clothes Shopping (Part 1) will be Tuesday at 10! Hope you guys enjoy and share!. -
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What a sad video. Solomon has no muscle tone at all, he's so frail and small for his age. He's TEN! Isn't that like 5th grade? The last year of elementary school. Could you imagine him going to middle school next year? No way.
WHY is everything in these kids' lives characters from video games?? Why do all his gifts have to be from characters in video games?
You notice when Tom measures the kids height he always has the pen tipped upward rather than flat across the head? He's so in denial.
I believe that brick with their names on it was for a sponsor donation Andrea made. She always said she supported the library because her kids were always there. It's not an "in Memory" brick. Bet he wants people to think he had that put there.
Holy cow! Claudia looks emaciated! She so tiny and fragile. She's 7, she looks like she's 4.
Made me laugh when he said a credit card offer came in Andrea's name. of course it would, she handled the money.
What is he trying to pull???? He doesn't want people to know that papa Doug gives a HUNDRED dollars for them to get a bike..not 25! He doesn't want the new subscribers to think he gets things paid for. lol
Hannah laid in Mrs Reeves arms, THAT is the special someone Tom speaks of. Hannah was very comfortable and must see her a lot. She is very involved with helping those kids.
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Here is the link to Sollys birthday video on Invidious.....
https://invidious.fdn.fr/cWPlbOZ5da4?t=2
Cannoli ABSOLUTELY!!!! The trip to the post office box was SO unnecessary to put in the birthday video.
At 12:25 in the video.......Tommo told the kids when they were getting out of the van "there could be some birthday mail in there".......then he shows the three little girls pointing to their box number on their PO box inside the post office!!! After he said the mail isn't what it used to be.....Solly asked "is there any boxes?"
WOW!!!
And that is the second time in couple weeks Tommo showed the post office and how there was no mail. He went in there after live shopping also.
I guess he figures he's got a bunch of new subscribers and I guess they were not around when he was getting a TON of mail all the time....gifts, donations etc. So I guess he figures he can drop hints to make then think maybe they should send stuff to the kids.
I guess Tommo forgets he had to admit on the video where he wrapped Edens birthday gifts in February, when folks started asking him in live chat if he received the birthday gifts they sent to Sophia for her birthday in January....and folks sent gifts to Eden for her birthday in February....I guess ole Tommo "forgot" he had to admit to folks during that LIVE, that yeah he received all the packages folks sent to Sophia and he had not given them to her yet.....a month after her birthday. He also wasn't gonna give Edens gifts to her either until after birthday.
Tommo.....Folks talk! If folks spend money on YOUR kids, buying gifts and mailing packages....and you dont give the gifts to the kids....and you don't bother to say thank you for folks for being so generous....WHY would anybody send gifts to your kids? WHY? EVERYBODY knows how ungrateful you were when folks sent tons of stuff to your kids. Everybody knows about the jackets and winter clothes the kids never wore once. Times are hard Tommo. Times are hard for everybody. Folks talk and information like that spreads pretty dang fast. Sure folks would like to send warm jackets to the kids for winter......folks did that already and the kids never wore them and they were never seen again. Folks are not as dumb as you like to think they are Tommo.
That was a BIG....send stuff to the kids...HINT, wasn't it? Its not gonna work Tommo. Not anymore!
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See how he uses his kids as props? He probably set that up ahead of time. He probably told Solly there might be boxes in there for him! Master manipulator strikes again!
I was so shocked by the way he threw the mail addressed to Andrea in the trash without ripping it up. Doesn't he know people use offers like that especially if the person is deceased, to get a credit card. It's easy enough to look up social security numbers in the SS Death Index and just say they moved and have it sent to a different address. He's such a dope.. -
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The empty mailbox shows people have figured him out. It doesn't take the mean Gossip Bakery ladies to do it. He did this to himself with his own words, actions, and behaviors.
Yes, Solly has no muscle tone. It's a shame to see him so frail, like a 95 year old man and speaking in a high pitched voice like a little kid. Yes, he'd be going to middle school. Our middle school starts in 5th grade. He's so frail and lacks such life skills, he couldn't even get the card out of the envelope.. -
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Solly needs someone to play a simple game of catch. They all need some physical exercise. I know before the pool broke, they enjoyed the little pool. Without formal school they don’t have structured physical education.
They could simply all go for a walk as Andrea frequently did with them.
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I felt that Solomon's birthday festivities, such as they were, were all for Tom.
That sword thing is too heavy and too dangerous for a small, underweight boy with no friends and who never leaves the premises. But Tom was excited about it!
The replacement phone was a dig at whomever broke the original one, so that part of the video was to shame the culprit and in any case, Solomon was his usual underwhelmed recipient of that - and most of his - gifts.
Tom did the ritual of measuring the birthday child and was happy to see a full 2 inch growth in a whole year. My gosh, Tom, you moronic, selfish piece of dirt! Healthy children can grow two inches in a summer and at Solomon's age his body should be bulking up in preparation for puberty.
There's something amiss with Solomon's profile, too and I know regular members here recognise that I'm not into shaming a child. What I mean is Solomon's jaw line is receding and to me that indicates he needs some orthodontic work, along with speech therapy.
Tom was relieved that Library Day was the same day as the birthday, which meant he had some hours filled for him and his kids, most of whom are far too old for that toddler activity anyway. It was sad to see a nine and ten year old leaving the library with toddler-style hand made toys. The older ones should have been enjoying browsing for books to read, not making a paper bag puppet. What normal kids would even want to socialise with toddlers in that way?
Back at the shed and Tom demanded a round of applause for his cake while little glum Claudia watched, probably wondering why her own birthday hadn't been celebrated that way. She got the burnt little cakes and the useless pretend candle, as I recall. And she was denied her birthday wish of going to her Grandma's to eat a subway sandwich.
The rest of Solomon's birthday video was the same format as every other. Tom being loud and obnoxious. Tom micro managing everyone and everything. Tom telling the birthday child what was in a parcel before it was opened. Tom serving all his favourite food and drinks. Tom being the centre of attention. Tom being needy.
So, in 12 months, what has Solomon learnt and achieved? Usually, a birthday is a celebration of progress and a reflection of what has passed and a happy anticipation of the future. Ten is a 'first double digit' affair, an exciting day for all.
However, in the Mills cult, the only thing poor Solomon did was to grow a measly two inches and...little else, if anything.
His speech is still awful.
He still makes a song and dance about choosing his weekly sweeties.
He runs to hide if attention is on him - and I would wager that part of his birthday party was deleted. I bet when it was time for him to sit while people sang Happy Birthday and the candles were to be blown out that he ran off or covered his face. He looked tense in the video that was reloaded.
He can't kick, throw or catch a ball properly.
He can't run or jump for his age.
He doesn't appear to climb or dangle from high places like most kids his age.
He doesn't have friends to rush out and play with, coming home filthy and tired.
He did survive another year, existing on bread, sugar, milk and very little else. He maintained his interest in Lego. He persisted in trying to gain his father's approval and love. He hasn't given up on his useless lump of a father.
I am saddened by his bland life. My own child at ten was in the Girl Guides, the Scouts, Junior Church Fellowship, was successful in her Judo Club and in her Swimming club. She had friends, interests, was an avid reader and had to be dragged in from playing sometimes and physically scrubbed clean. Her clothes often defied all laundry product claims. She ate me out of house and home and would rush in from school, pulling off her uniform and begging for sustenance! 'Mummy, I'm hungry!' was her rallying cry as she tore into the house. She had clear preferences for non-uniform clothes and footwear. She had opinions on anything. She was naughty, she was good, she was scarily quiet sometimes and she had a bright, healthy complexion and grew like a weed.
My girl was an average, normal ten year old and what is poor Solomon? He is an average Mills Cult offspring, that's what he is. The product of Tom Mills' selfish, arrogant and ignorant parenting style.. -
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I decided to watch Sollys birthday video as the kids are all out the house today and I have a moment to myself.
Why did it take Solomon so long to open the sword gift? How much tape did Tom put on it too, Just so frustrating and silly when its all getting ripped off. Why Tom wastes so much time perfectly wrapping things, I have no idea. Id have popped it in a box and be done with it. As a mother of many boys, we’ve practically gone through every sword, gun, fake explosive, tools, knife toy in the books ever but I’ve never thought about buying any of them a replica real weight type of weapon, a crappy light plastic is one thing to play pretend with but when it’s a weighty slab mimicking a real sword then that’s just asking for trouble.
The way Tom explains every single gift in detail is so strange. I feel like for some reason only known to him he spends hours researching and looking for these gifts in order to really IMPRESS the kids, when they are always SO underwhelmed by every single thing he gets them. They just don’t know how to emote naturally at all, or show any excitement or gratitude. Tom seemed more excited than he did! I know Solly is into army and guns and stuff, but swords seem very unaligned with his interest we know (Minecraft and Lego!)
The Shark lego thing Asher got Solly looked like something that Solly would really like although he barely glanced at it before moving on. Same with what Thomas got him, Those gifts sounded really cool, especially the robot thing but Solly was shaking the bag and looking for something else inside it. I don’t know, Ive been to a lot of kids parties over the summer and none of them have looked as soulless and unmoved by their gifts as the Mills kids do. He’s so socially awkward it’s hard to understand if he’s just nervous or doesn’t care. Solly did seem excited by the bike money though, I hope he gets a nice one and he enjoys it. I also like that he read all the cards, it’s very sweet of him.
Im sure one of the kids had a Plants vs Zombies party years and years ago, (I checked but can’t find it, I think it was maybe Eden or Justus?) back when Andrea was alive. I bet Tom was dying to compare just how AMAZING his effort was compared to Andreas poor budget friendly one. Despite the kids probably looking 100x happier in the other video. I feel like she always put a lot of effort into nice parties for the kids where as Tom seems to force party themes on the kids just to fit with tradition.
I had a quick look at the last video Andrea posted of Sollys birthday - a Pirate themed one where he looked like he had SO much fun. He got a little army backpack, helmet and some army things and he put it on straight away with all of his other gifts and played with them all really excitedly. He wore the backpack all day! Just makes me so sad how much his spirit has been broken in three short years. They went to the park with a bunch of the extended family and he’s even out in the park talking other little kids that they comment that they don’t even know and he’d just met them that evening. He just looked like a normal kid having the time of his life. All of the kids look like they are having fun, laughing, being silly and just cherishing time together It just looked so special and nice and normal, where the whole family come together to celebrate and love each other. They even take him to Walmart so he can spend his birthday money on something he chooses not just wasting the money on junk in Diehls like he will have to do.
It was nice Mrs Reeves was there as well as (I think?) Andrea’s sisters and her children, I recall her one sister being pregnant when Andrea had passed? And then her other sister also had a small baby around that time. I even saw Hadley, who is also around Solomon’s age I recall? I didn’t see the son, but he’s more justus’s age so perhaps he was socialising with them rather than the little kids. I was worried the extended family had given up on Tom and the kids but I’m glad they made an effort for birthdays. I heard someone mention that Andrea would have loved the cake as she liked cookie dough a lot, it might have been Mrs Reeves.
The Library thing is most definitely for preschoolers, not kids Sophia or Sollys age. Although it’s nice for them to get out the house and make something crafty, it’s definitely not age appropriate and if it was a group more aimed at kids their age I probably wouldn’t roll my eyes at it. Our local library has an all ages kids craft hour at the weekends, but because this is midweek it’s definitely for the kids who aren’t of school age. I always forget the kids are as old as they, I can’t believe Solly is TEN. He looks like a little boy of like 6/7 in my eyes. He should have some meat on his bones, more of a stronger build and start putting on a little weight for when he starts to really shoot up. I think he’s going to be a tall boy, but he’s so thin and weak its really worrying. Asher was the same growing up and also shot up. If only Solly was fed foods he actually liked he might gain some good healthy weight rather than having to live off oatmeal, ramen and bread. If one of my kids had the same eating issues as Solly I would go absolutely out of my way to figure out what foods they DO like and feel safe eating and make that consistently (hidden veggies included!) if only so they are fed adequately. I’d never force foods and bribe them to eat food they don’t like or are terrified of like Tom does! There are a lot of foods Solly does like, he just isn’t catered for at all so had to just starve. I bet he goes to bed hungry most days.
The kids lack of development is really shocking. I agree Passerby compared to my kid who is slightly older than Solly they couldn’t be more different. He’s just your average preteen who will eat me out of house and home, run off with his friends at any moment, talk endlessly about movies he likes or video games he’s played. Solly has the weight of the world on his shoulders, so anxious and unsure of himself, plagued with fear, he begs for attention and stimulation and craves LOVE. Tom has no idea about child development or what skills a child of a certain age should be able to complete. I think he just wants to keep them uneducated and childlike forever, despite the fact if they were being trained up to be good adults it would make his life easier than having a bunch of toddler acting kids flocking around him. Remember when he was amazed Hannah could talk and how smart she was, despite the fact she was talking less than a girl her age should be at that age.
The kids did look nice on his birthday though, well groomed and dressed appropriately. If only that could be a consistent thing not just on days Tom has them try and perform for the camera. It really isn’t that hard to get kids groomed, especially the ages of most of the littles now. They should be able to get dressed and groom their hair with some supervision of course.
Im probably in the minority but I think talking about April is inappropriate now that she’s remarried and off the channel for many years. I understand the want to gossip about her but Im sure she would rather forget her moment of madness and entering the Mills family circus for a brief time! I feel for whatever she was thinking or going through at time when she allowed herself into that situation, but she’s moved on.
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WHY did Solly need a big heavy sword as a birthday gift? His arms are SO skinny his elbow joints bulges because there is so little muscle on either side of his elbow joints!!! WHY does "Daddy" have to buy weapons for the boys for gifts???? Last christmas Tommo got toy guns and ammo for Asher and Judah. He also got catapults for Solly, Thomas, Asher and Judah. Hannah got a machete for Asher. WHAT is going on with them? Tommo said Solly's new sword is the weight of a real sword. Solly has no danger awareness because none of the kids socialize enough to know what is acceptable and what is not. If one of the little girls got hit accidently with that sword they could be seriously hurt.
MountainHiker11 oh my gosh the trip to the post office was really using the kids as props!!! Disappointed kids who got no "birthday mail" on Sollys birthday......and then Solly asking if there were any boxes???? Oh WOW!!!
Tommo really hit a new low with that one. That is also the second trip to the post office Tommo showed on videos within a week. He went in there when he was live streaming Thursday and there was no mail then either. I bet its because he's got a bunch of new subscribers on there and he figures if he drops enough hints they will send stuff.
I know for a fact that folks who sent stuff to the Mills kids in the past and who Tommo was rude to and blocked when they asked if they got the packages......the folks who sent packages shared their experiences with Tommo far and wide. The pastor at Moms church removed the Mills family from their church list of families who need help and he also told folks to be careful about sending stuff to the Mills kids because he could not confirm that the kids received the gifts or were allowed to keep the gifts/money sent to them. The pastor warns folks all the time about scams where fake charities ask for money and donations. Its the first time we heard him add a you tube channel and a family to that list. He was absolutely right to do that. As he said, he could not confirm whether the kids receive the gifts and donations sent to them and for them. Mom shared her experiences sending gifts to the kids....how Tommo was rude to her when she asked on a live stream if he received the gifts, he then blocked her. Mom asked TWICE and she is so polite.
Tommo had more than enough generosity from folks who probably have a LOT less than he has. He was so rude to so many great folks who sent wonderful and expensive gifts to the kids. I guess the kids expect to get stuff now. That's how Tommo raised them. Its also Tommo's fault the packages and super chats stopped. He needs to quit with the post office hint dropping now. Its too staged and its too dang obvious.
He's got more than enough money to go buy clothes and toys for his kids. Folks from you tube should not be doing that for him. Andrea passed three years ago. Tommo and the kids got a LOT of money and gifts after she passed and for two years after she passed. Enough already. Time to stop acting all entitled and move the heck on Tommo..
April moved on, Tom still a moron! Pt 23 |
