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| QUOTE (ColdOne @ 6/2/2024, 03:48) Team TensleighSapphire is a wannabe influencer & doesn't deserve Bakery protection 💰
Posting once or twice a month on a single topic isn't my definition of a wannabe influencer. |
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| Here's my thought on why Tens changed her insta profile for a hot minute....I think she reads here (or her friends do) to give her thoughts and feelings about Jen validation....lets face it--Tens most likely sees the EXACT same things we do about how Jen acts/cares/mothers her children. However, as the new wife, Tens could be thinking that she is too close to the situation and could be reading into things wrong.
I think she comes on here and realizes that she's right and she has to do whatever it takes to protect and be a mother to those 5 children. And she is making it known to Jen, that no matter what d*n is going through...Tens still loves his children as if they were her own. And that has to chap Jen's hide.
And if he is away getting help, and the kids are at school, I'm glad she has this place to come to and read. Knowing she is right and knowing she is doing terribly difficult things to help her husband (if he is getting help) the way his family and ex wife never did, should give her some comfort.
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| I'm behind....D*n could have an addiction problem and Tens might have had to make some sad decisions to force him to get help. Often, if the police are involved and someone is forced to get help involuntary, a protection from abuse is the next, required step. It kind of forces the person who needs help to stay where they are to get the help they need (going home won't be an option with a restraining order in place).
I wish Tens and the kids and Don (if he is struggling) nothing but healing. Jen can go f*ck right off.
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| This might be unpopular but having done some real dumb sh*t in my own lifetime (that involved cops being called) I am one for the belief that none of us truly know the facts or circumstances of a situation and the people directly involved are best positioned to decide what is best for them.
T is a grown woman, and while everyone is quick to say drop that loser and run, it may be worthwhile for them to get collective help and figure this out for their family that I believe both of them are committed to. I am not one for forgiving crap treatment and giving multiple chances, but if this is his one big screw up and IF AND ONLY IF he’s willing to seek intensive help and commit to change I believe that is the better outcome than another uprooting for the couple and the children involved. As someone in a second marriage myself, I don’t advocate for drop and run. Keeping a family together with the added complexity of ex-spouses and step-siblings is hard work. Finding a co-pilot in life is also hard. I’m glad that T (appears to be) someone who doesn’t tolerate bullshit, and I trust her to make decisions that make sense for her and her household without speculating that things are at the extreme end of horrible.
The one thing in this I am truly outraged by is how Jen has acted out online and made this all about herself. Whether she feels “vindicated” by this dirt or what ever her first priority as a mother should have been to protect her children because like it or not that is their father and their last name Jen is helping smear dirt on. |
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| Tens, I wish you and the kids all the best. I'm sorry that Jen used this opportunity to bring attention to your difficult personal issue, all because she was floored by having to parent her own kids. I can't imagine what she has put you through over the years.
I hope you destroyed the loftice. |
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| QUOTE (Party of 7 @ 1/10/2024, 06:16 PM) We see you, Tens.
Probably a hint that she will be keeping the garden growing and working on the marriage… “watch us grow.”
Sorry that Jenny, the sociopath made your life so public without permission.
Think of it as a shout out to you, Party of 7 You'll still be relevant  |
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| With some of the comments here you would think that D** was on an episode of cops!!!! we don’t know the full story…
To say that Ten’s should cut and run is so extreme!!! to say their marriage is failing because they fell in love quickly and got married quickly is crazy… there are many successful marriages of people who get married way quicker!!!
Good grief, life is not black or white… None of us know what really is happening… The best thing anybody could hope for, is that if D** is getting help that he is getting the proper help that is needed … and together all of the adults in the situation will do the best they can for the children involved.
Maybe she doesn’t want to leave because maybe she loves him… Maybe she wants to work it out… Maybe she wants to get help and have a healthier marriage… That’s not a bad thing!!!! |
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| QUOTE (SingHo!toDons2ndWife @ 1/9/2024, 07:04 PM) Don divorced the mother of his two children while the youngest was still in diapers so let’s not sing his praises as a father quite so loudly.
Yes, Jen is an intolerable asshole but so is he.
I actually think getting the kids away from her for 50% of the time was a good move. |
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| *checks post history*
Ohhhhh you're THAT user. That "tracks." |
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| QUOTE (Applesoranges @ 31/12/2023, 20:21) On the fam cover photo there are some “care” reactions from friends… usually people use that reaction when something bad or sad is going on, not just a happy fam photo.
I think some people just think it's a hug. |
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| I love the pic. Ten's beautiful, shiny hair must drive Bertha Gene BONKERS!!!
I'm still on the "Don has some serious illness, like cancer, and is away at a treatment center receiving treatments". Ten's ex and her mom have her kids. Don MAY be able to see the kids, if all goes well and his blood counts stay up. It's unknown. I hope I'm wrong, but that tracks with the scenario.
But, we need to remember that Jen lies more than she tells the truth:
Don is fine (he was living in the basement)
I had to stop running outside because of raccoons (Don had moved out, she was using the tread)
I have no plans to move soon (she had already bought a house)
Show's Friday Night Pizza Night on Friday, but her ipad said it was Monday (she was in Disney)
Showed a Starbucks cup on her counter, like she had been there after school drop-off (she was in Disney), but the date and time were from Monday, not Thursday)
Said "in my former life I ate sushi, but I don't really like it", but she just showed a video where she spent $50 on a sushi dinner.
Said "in my previous life I ate chocolate, but I've discovered I really don't care for it", but she just purchased a $300 chocolate advent calendar and enjoyed a piece every damn day of the month.
Jen can't be believed and she will ALWAYS try to put herself in a good light and Don in a bad light, even if she has to out and out lie about it.
I'm not even getting into the caged, tamed crap that she inferred. These points are out and out LIES.
I am in Chicago at the theater, because theater is in my blood (she was in Disney runningO) |
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Tens' fashion sense is cute, put together, but still down to earth and accessible. Not try-hard.
Way better than that infantilized elderly ogre. No comparison! |
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| Bloody hell Bakers, it's Christmas, what the heck has been happening around here? 
Now that I'm caught up my theory is that Tens is pregnant and suffering from the pukes. |
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| I think she may be using DVC points, as all resorts she listed are vacation clubs.
Edited by GivingMyselfGrace - 9/17/2023, 01:40 PM |
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| | Went back to Tens' IG posts. The tomato-picking one is definitely her voice. She's saying what she did with the tomatoes. But who takes a glass pitcher out to pick tomatoes? I guess she does. |
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