Brianna, has not done research about high value men and what they look for in a wife.

High value men on average, are philanthropist. Brianna, is not involved in her community. Showing up to volunteer at her community hall events, galas, soup kitchens would expose her to higher value men.

High value men are involved in gentle sports, such as sailing (sail boat), rowing, tennis, swimming, ect. The teslas fill the parking lot at my local sailing, rowing and tennis courts.

Many of the housewives of the upper middle class, belonged to their local garden club, which designs city gardens and tend to be the women who design their interiors at Christmas for tours.

Knitting and quilt making is a common hobby for upper class women, as it gives women something meaningful to do, also provides useful things for the family but also can make things to support community, ie homeless, sick and babies in the hospital.

High Value men want women who can plan and execute a high class dinner party, with fine linens and food for a mature palate.

High value men, spend on quality items, as they want things that will last decades and except the same from a spouse.

Old money dress like the English Royals, modestly but classy, no labels. They don't wear ripped or rayed clothings, they don't wear skin tight clothing, they don't have dry hair, they do not tan or use fake tan, they do not show cleavage or highlight bottom. Closed toe heels are a must.

High value men, look for a women, who can speak with their associates and friends with reverence and class. They want a wife who can pronounce words properly at least most common words ie Milk, foyer.

High value men, read a lot, they read the classic novels but also the books that will elevate their business and philanthropy endeavors, they look for women who also read books with depth, so they have more things to discuss with their wife.

High class men, do not watch television, going to the live theatre is more their style, as part of it is networking but typically theatre productions have depth to them.

High class men, go for coffee at 6am at independent coffee shops, to gently socialize and read the paper before starting their day at the office. They are typically the places that have not changed décor in 30 years, there is a rolodex that customers have their tab written on, the barista starts making their order once they see their old car pull up.

Brianna, pretty much everything you do right down to the knives you use in the kitchen and how you hold them, repels high value men.