The Gossip Bakery

Posts written by grilledcheesesandwiches

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    I believe there can be clauses in alimony agreements, though Jen doesn’t have toooooo much longer left of that
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    QUOTE (I love me some me @ 5/1/2024, 00:50) 
    QUOTE (grilledcheesesandwiches @ 5/1/2024, 00:09) 
    Let’s acknowledge fathers are equally parents as mothers (and for Charlotte and DK4 fathers can even better parents). Why shouldn’t Don have 50/50, it is not “ridiculous and unstable” at all.

    I’m not implying that fathers do not have equal rights, or are inferior parents.
    I do believe that the shuffling back and forth is very very hard on any person. Any human being, small or large, would have a hard time living in 2 different places 50 percent of the time. I wouldn’t like to uproot myself twice a week to go live in a hotel, and then come home. And do to over and over again.
    So yea, I do believe the 50/50 law is really, really stupid.

    And this is not a discussion about who is the better parent. It’s an acknowledgment, that as a mother, who has a heart and a soul, would find this very very hard on behalf of their children. This has nothing to do with equal rights. It has to do with a place of home. Everyone deserves that.

    So you think 50/50 is dumb and unfair on the kids because they have to move between homes twice a week- yet you advocated for them to still move between homes just where Don has them 2/7 and Jen has them 5/7 every week?!

    If, by that logic, 5/7 and 2/7 is ok (which would make it even harder to settle in and feel at home btw), why did you automatically defer to the dad having the lesser hours?
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    Let’s acknowledge fathers are equally parents as mothers (and for Charlotte and DK4 fathers can even better parents). Why shouldn’t Don have 50/50, it is not “ridiculous and unstable” at all.
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    I have to say, team… having not read here for the last couple of days, and now being an hour and a half late for starting work today… thank goodness for flexible work practices!
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    For the love of God, Jessica! Clearly reading here is not good for you, so just don’t! You are in full control of what you expose yourself to.
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    QUOTE (A Real Star Wars Fan @ 1/1/2024, 14:24) 
    QUOTE (pinksims @ 12/31/2023, 05:26 PM) 
    lol - she occasionally lets these nuggets of truth slip.

    The 'I did everything - it's not fun' gif - what TF does she think other women do during Thanksgiving? Sit around on their arses sipping cocktails? Women in their 40s tend to HAVE RESPONSIBILITIES. Lmao what planet is she on. Such a lazy twat.

    How many people were at her Thanksgiving? Less than 10? And all immediate family, no mere acquaintances or complete strangers to impress. What did she really have to do? It's not like she hosted dinner for 50 people she didn't know, cooked all the food, served all the drinks, all by her little lonesome. My family does Christmas all together the week after , and this year was my turn to host. We had 18 people. Now granted, I have one of those sadly no longer available husbands to help me, but you know what? I still had a great time because they're family and we don't have to wait on them hand and foot. All the food was made ahead of time. They know how to serve themselves and they know where the bar is, and everyone can handle their own shit. No small children, but when there have been kids present, anyone can help tend to them because they're family. She's the queen of making a 29029 mountain out of a molehill.

    IIRC the most she ever had was about 27 (inc her and Don) - which yes, is a lot. But several would assist with bringing a dish and Don did a LOT of the prep/cooking. Jen was basically the dessert baker.
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    I would *love* for someone in her ‘community’ (🤮) to ask why she brought another child into the world when she was already contemplating leaving her relationship
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    My husband is always quick to point out when some orchestrated giant shit is going on in the world the politicians are using it as cover to pass legislative changes without people realising as they are so busy talking about whatever the cover piece is.

    So with that logic…. What is Jen trying to hide from us right now that she is using this ‘bomb’ as cover for?!
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    There is nothing for Don or Tens in the court listings for their current county.
    Not saying nothing is going on for Don, but also not saying Jen would never blow crap out of proportion. Particularly given she admitted she is feeling feisty this week.
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    Part of that is probably Taren having fashion and common sense of an overgrown toddler 🤣
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    Every now and then I'll watch through-hikers and they comment that they become somewhat immune to their funk but are super sensitive when day hikers come out and can smell their deodorants, perfumes, etc.

    Jen.... you're not a through-hiker who has been on the AT or other long trail for 6 months straight!

    I assure you, others can smell you. There are already a million reasons why people avoid you, don't give them even more!
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    QUOTE (WhereDoesDaddySleep @ 22/12/2023, 23:09) 
    QUOTE (D**'sGlowUp @ 12/22/2023, 05:22 PM) 
    See I thought so too but I thought the initial travel plans were talked about before and then no mention again since all the talk of pivots and accommodating. Then again all her drivel blends together. Did the BBI have her potential cruise dates figured out? I think she’d have to be going this upcoming week if it is truly on CC’s bday… I don’t think she was expecting to have the kids this Christmas Eve until very recently so something got switched up.

    I think whatever happened is affecting Jen's travel plans only. Bailing on a cruise is a huge deal, Jen would be freaking out.

    I found a site that lists all the upcoming Disney cruises. I'm reasonably certain they'll be on the cruise for NYE, because I can't imagine Jen running herself ragged to put together a special outfit otherwise. We all know if they were in the parks there's no way they would attend a ball drop event. The kids would want to go back to the room and Jen would complain about it for the next six months.
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    The following sailings include New Year’s Eve (December 31, 2023).

    Disney Dream: 5-Night Bahamian Double-Dip on December 28
    Disney Fantasy: 7-Night Western Caribbean on December 30
    Disney Magic: 6-Night Western Caribbean on December 27
    Disney Wish: 4-Night Bahamian on December 29
    Disney Wonder: 6-Night Australian on December 28

    Obviously they're not going to Australia. Charlotte's birthday is the 28th. Would she embark on that day? IDK.

    I'm leaning towards the Magic, but that's a wild guess.

    As an Australian who has flown to America multiple times…. There ain’t no way in shit Jen is making a super long haul flight alone with the kids

    Chicago to Sydney is generally around 21-25hrs with a multiple hour layover
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    It’s not a D&T divorce. She’d be giddily, ecstatically, over the moon happy if that were the case.
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    Jessica has made references to Adam being very particular with how he wants things - order, perfectly straight lines, etc whereas she is more slapdash.

    I feel for those kids - there are times where cutting corners is not ok, but when dad has such high and almost unmeetable expectations it is a lot to live up to. If it isn't life and death, sometimes near enough is good enough - and if nothing ever meets his expectations then maybe he should do the work himself (and scale back if that is unattainable amongst a full-time, out of the home job)
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    QUOTE (Doxie Mom @ 12/12/2023, 13:15) 
    kerb? You mean curb?

    It’s definitely spelt kerb here 🤣
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