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This is a reach BUT
I'm in the rewatch thread and Jen claimed her and Don regularly went on trios where they didn't film including the one she was preparing for because it's not appropriate to have your phone anywhere but the room. Could they have been exploring sex clubs? I KNOW it sound NOTHING like the Jen we know but knowing what Don CLAIMS about himself and their weird Princess crap, I wonder if for a few years she tried the freaky lifestyle out. -
.You know…a lot of people are alone. Single. Don’t have a ton of friends….particularly single friends to do things with. If you are lucky enough to not be alone-good for you. I live in a condo building…and it seems like a lot of us are pretty alone.
Also a lot of us don't find being alone boring either. Idk why so many people in this thread seem to find the idea of being by themselves so miserable. Travelling, and camping, alone can be amazing and mind clearing. -
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Oh man, I hate to say it. HATE IT. BUT, I think this could be good for Jen. 7 years into my marriage I started taking solos weekend trips across my state. Couldn't go long because my kids and husband still needed me but it did wonders for my self growth. Of course I didn't film but the time alone was magical. And even ugly little marshes seemed beautiful at the time. The solitude, if she's actually using the time to learn about herself and she honest with herself, could change her life. It changed mine. Now I take 2 seperate trips a year, a week each, by myself. My family and work expect it and I look forward to them. Just me and my car and my snacks, and whatever adventure I run into. -
.I also feel like there is a meta element to this. If she posts, whatever she says or does, it will be picked apart and analyzed and she will be criticized and made fun of. In the past, this didn't matter to her because her desire to brag to others gave her more emotional fulfillment than the criticism detracted. But, she no longer has anything to brag about.
If she doesn't post anything, she still gets tons of attention. People wonder how she's doing and when she's coming back. But specifics of the current circumstances of her life are not available for people to snark on. So, really, not posting fulfills her emotional needs better than posting does.
The only way this pattern would change would be if the equation changed -- if posting gave her more emotional fulfillment (narcissistic supply) than not posting. If everyone stopped posting on this thread, maybe the equation would change. Or, as I said, maybe it would change if she found some other way of increasing her attention-seeking behaviors, such as Munchausen's. Or, of course, if she acquired something to brag about.
She's probably been reading this thread the whole time...she may even be reading it right at this moment (hi, Jen!) She has literally nothing else to do with her life at this point. I believe that she is getting her narcissistic supply that way. Having dozens (hundreds?) of strangers wonder where you are, analyze your every move, and speculate about the most trivial details of your life, would make anyone feel special.
Therefore, my radical proposal is that our best chance to draw Jen out is for everyone to stop posting in this thread entirely until she comes out with new content.
I 100% agree with the bolded bit. Honestly at this point I feel like she reads here and doesn't post whenever we think she will in an effort to spite us. -
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I actually want Jen to come back on top! Some extensions, therapy, medication, good makeup, clothes that actually work! Etc. A complete 180!
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When you ask a guest politely to take their shoes off at the door and they give you side eye... that really chaps my hide.
That's just rude. Always mind rules at peoples houses even the ones you don't agree with. Unless they are harmful to you on some way. People kill me with that sort of self righteous attitude at someone's else's home smh. -
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I don't mind taking my shoes off at peoples houses but I don't like like being bare foot in spaces I'm not familiar with and I hate having their dirt on the bottom of my feet. 98% of the people who have asked me to take my shoes off didn't have floors clean enough to be requesting all that lol -
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Why didn't Gene get a nanny if she couldn't stand being a mother so much. It may have helped. -
.I think she’ll come back when she is also engaged or married. Possibly in like two years.
While the current Jen is pretty undate-able, she’s shown her ability to be a ‘talented actress’ before. She can make herself whoever a future husband wants, the trick is that she has to want a husband enough to convince herself that Jenbot Model 2001 is the ‘real’ her. Also to lower her standards enough to get the kind of middle-aged well-off dope who’ll date her - but they do exist.
Donsleigh might just be enough to convince her she needs a revenge marriage.
Can she make herself a pretty, slim, 25 year old, with no baggage? Because that’s what the kind of woman the man Jen wants can get in the dating market. It’s the sad truth.
She wants a rich guy to be at her beck and call like Don was. That lightning will not strike twice. She was lucky it even struck once because she was no catch even when she was young.
But Tens isn't 25 without baggage right? She has 3 kids lol and she got a guy like Don. -
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😂😂 What video is this from and please tell me it's not gone -
.If Jen is gone, what will she do for money. Eventually her alimony will stop, And with her spending habits she'll run out of her "nest egg" fairly quickly. She doesn't appear to have any actual work skills and she can't finish anything that she starts. Is there a reality that exists where Jen turns from a rich princess into a peasant?
Thinking ahead has never been a strong point for Planner Enthusiast OrganizedLikeJen
I’d like to think someone helped her set up a budget with disappearing alimony in mind, but her manic spending sprees show she isn’t consistent.
I’m sure in her mind she thinks she’ll remarry before it runs out.
She should be more concerned with Don attempting for full custody of the kids and losing the child support (that still has 15 or so years left). Not that I think he will, but he could.
Idk actually. I think with a new wife and happy home, especially if Jen throws little temper tantrums, Don would fight take the children for time. I mean we see how unloving she is from edited 30 minute videos once a week. He saw her all of the time. He could probably make a decent argument in regards to their safety etc. We joke about Jen but if she really as bad as we think, I could see Tens trying to protect her new home by suggesting to Don they try for full custody or at least temporary while his ex works out her "issues" lol -
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If Jen is gone, what will she do for money. Eventually her alimony will stop, And with her spending habits she'll run out of her "nest egg" fairly quickly. She doesn't appear to have any actual work skills and she can't finish anything that she starts. Is there a reality that exists where Jen turns from a rich princess into a peasant? -
.Plus we all assume this is rushed as though they just met. I still believe she was in the picture way before the divorce. Maybe not as a lover but she was around. It just happened that they connected further or again post divorce.
Maybe Don s proposal was informal because she got pregnant. Who knows. Unless Karma shows up again with juice it s all speculation anyway.
Tossing this theory out again: T and D knew each other and/or dated in high school but went their separate ways for college. One or the both have always viewed the other as “the one that got away.”
Maybe they maintained contact with mutual friends, occasionally crossed paths at a restaurant, whatever, so Jen at least new of her. Hence, Jen’s issue with “boundaries” being crossed now that D&T reconnected. Most wouldn’t expect “girl code” to apply here but it’s Jen so the rules are whatever she wants them to be.
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I don't think she was crying. Hasn't Gene said that Winnie is very emotionally intelligent and cuddles her when she cries? Lol so if that's true, then she wasn't crying.
Hope y'all read the sarcasm through all that. -
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I wonder why many Bakers, if not most, feel it's impossible that Don cheated on Jen. The timelines line up to me ESPECIALLY if they are married already. And Jen wouldn't use it for sympathy (she could be doing that now) because her man cheating and leaving her for an upgraded better person would just make her look like she failed. And then of course people would need to loom closer and figure out why would Dom leave his "perfect" housewife. He probably got tired of her shit after all these years, slept around a bit when she forced him into a sexless marriage after the kids. They probably fought over it a bit, she gave him an ultimatum and he called her bluff since he was falling for one of the f-buddies AKA Tens.
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