She needs to TURN THE LIGHTS ON. Wtf is wrong with her? Anyone who has ever take a picture or video with ANY camera knows lighting is important. She looks like she’s about to tell ghost stories of her craptice past.
Well not related to anything recent but I finally ran across the screen capture I’d saved bc I wanted to compare it to the walnut ornament. Someone else did the top comparison. I’ve added the third pic
ffs its 43 degrees where she lives why does she insist on looking like an asshat with hat and glasses ear band
im sure she is waddling around the burbs with her water bladder strapped to her back
I might go to hell for this but it's worth it. she looks like she was let out of the group home for mentally challenged persons. wandered away from her safe home.
if you have to put glitter on your face for a test run you are an absolute loser.
I’ve had a real rough month and day… I guess I’m going to hell because I laughed out loud - thanks for that.
I assume Don is ill at this point. I think showing the old photos with him is her rewriting a narrative that she cared and cares about him as a person despite referring to him as “that man” and laughing at a joke as his expense. It will come out eventually that he’s ill, still assuming, and she will make it about her still.
IF the kids are still seeing Don at all and she doesn’t really have them everyday, could it be something like weekly family therapy was suggested so she would need to be home all winter to be at weekly sessions with kids or something? This is a bit out of my realm.
It does seem like Don is unavailable. I do think it could be something as simple as a new job in a new location. There can be immediate needs with job opportunities. If Jen is willingly speaking with Tens and not oozing resentment, maybe it is an illness. People have traveled for the best specialized treatments plenty. Even I know non-1%ers who have done this for cancer treatments. That or someone in the house is immune compromised from an illness/treatment seems to make sense.
I think she can't quite come to terms with this ... I just can't imagine what this must be like. She had this very secure life and the it was gone and now there is an actual human who is now living your life and you can't seem to believe it or move on
It's got to be strange
It's a huge lesson in not taking anything for granted. Even the person you're married to. Divorce isn't that difficult these days - we should all regularly check in with ourselves that we are giving our spouse a good life, meeting their needs and respecting them. The idea that they are stuck with us for life is a false one. Jen took her eye off the ball and suddenly there's a Tensleigh and she has amazing hair.
Agreed. Whoever said also those decisions like divorce shouldn’t be made until kids are three is wise (outside of abuse of course etc). The early years are really difficult. A poor sleeping child wreaks havoc on adults too.
kids we got some new furniture and we have to take extra good care of it. we need to make sure we don't get it dirty so we're going to have some rules. no eating on the couch ever. you also can't have markers or anything that could stain the couch on it. use it if you want to sit and read a book or play a video game or just rest. if you just got done eating make sure you wash your hands really well to get any food off of them before going to sit down
there you go
Also, just buy some Folex. That shit works miracles.
I think it’s definitely illness or rehab. Either way she’s already making it about her - if it’s rehab and she’s trying to make it through the video without crying?
If it’s rehab, I hope it was a choice he made not catalyzed by anything unfortunate. But in general good for him to committing to trying. Chronic pain is a terrible thing.
I really hope it’s not an illness but the plural “surprises” fits this too. When you’re diagnosed they still have many tests and scans to classify a cancer, find cancer that has metastasized, lab results to find a target treatment.
She’s such a bitch. I have two kids and it would be unbearable for me to spend time away and travel like she does. She is so fucking ungrateful. Parent your children and speak well of their father. Just because someone else’s addiction (if it is that) is considered bad, she still has a million mental issues that aren’t doing her kids any favors. Like figure out why you’ve never had a friend?!?!
You guys have said it all but just weighing in. Hosting is a lot of what she said - work and all. And my family is chock full of drama. Different people come each year. But I have two kids and I have great memories despite the drama I was aware of (and not aware of) growing up and I want my KIDS to have those good memories too.
Not memories of my mom throwing plastic containers on an island with zero effort obviously resenting the whole thing.
I won’t fault Jen at all for ordering sides but she DEFINITELY should have put them in fucking serving bowls and used real plates omg.
Where are the fresh flowers she buys herself at TJs she always says to put out? No one is holding her hostage to host. Her mom is 78?! My parents are almost as old as they are crazy (at least one of them). I am soooo happy to relieve them of doing anything.
I roll my eyes some and wish some grown adults would help more too but maybe she should think that her mom and dad wiped her pampered ass and worked for a living (her dad at least I assume) to raise her. She could once a year serve a meal and read a book about boundaries like I did.
The alcohol thing was wildly inappropriate.
Jill and Jen is the tension right? Idk I’ve seen sons and mothers have lots of tension too. Who knows. She’s a basket case. Everyone has childhood crap and everyone had to learn to deal with it bc parents are old and not likely to change.
Get real therapy and meds!!!!
Her suggesting they have Thanksgiving at Disney is lunacy. Do you want them to hate Disney with that kind of crowd experience? Just go to a restaurant. Easy.
It IS expensive especially for people who have been to the real countries and don’t need the Epcot fake experience (don’t get me wrong I love Epcot lol)
She’s so insane. Just be reasonable and book a restaurant ffs.
